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Oh hi, just to let you know that i decided not to talk to him anymore. so i sent him a mail today. I am doing this challenge that SUPERDAVE has organised NO CONTACT CHALLENGE.Today is my day one hope i will be ok. I have deleted his number so i wont be tempted. Is been really hard and he just txt me back saying that he will miss me terribly. Will keep you posted

Dave, i think this is a great idea!!!!!!!!!!! Is it too late for me to start this challenge Dave. If is not count me in from today please!!!

Hi Wandering_sword, I am sorry hav been away. Is still complicated with me and my men. He wanted us to keep talking and do the friends thing and me being nice and always looking after him i accepted. Now i am not sure cos it hurts alot. The more i talk to him the more it hurts. We are not even planning to meet at all, he still txt and calls me and it makes it hard for me to move on cos i still love him and dont kno what to do. I think he is confused and confuse me as well. Thanks hope to hear from you soon

Thanks all for your replies means alot. I will let you know the outcome

Thanks for your advice, really helpfull. I will do that cos i cant stand not talking to him either. I will give him the good news tonight i know he will be happy

Dont reply girl, You did your best!!! Stay strong it hurts and make you confussed but dont go there Be strong ignore it.

Hi All, I will try to cut this long story short. I am 27yrs and hav been with him for 9 mnths. When we met everything was great, we were friends first then we knew there was more to our friendship so we became a couple. In the mean time he broke up with his first love and the only girl he is ever been with for 14years since they were 16. She has been horrible to him since and never talk.We got together 6months after they broke up. The last time they arranged for him to go and get his staffs, he was wishing to get to talk and make a closure for their relationship but instead she got her friend to open the door and give him his staffs, i am the only one he is confident enough to talk to so i was there for him.So we go closer and our couple was anything i will ever wish for. He is telling me that i am great and that i helped him to see that all womans are not the same. He is happy again with me, got alot in common,he told his family( brother,sister and mum about me even his friends).We have a distant relationship he asked me to move in with him and find a new job so i accepted, this was his idea not mine, now he thinks that he wont be able to give me what i want when we move in together. So he wants to be friends. He said he love me so do i. Is been a year that they broke up. I dont kno if i can be friends with him cos i love him and that wont help me to get over him if we talk.This happened monday and we still talk and find it hard to decide what to do. I dont want to let him down by not talking to him at all at he says it break his heart.He says he is sick of the hold she has on him and he is got to sort himself out.I asked him last nite if he thinks that we will EVER be together. He said he needs to talk to her i am confused what should i do please help.](*,) Thanks all xx