SuperDave71

Is she having her cake and eat it too? Sounds that way to me..... Put yourself in her shoes..she is having doubts about her man....period. She would never be with you otherwise. Womean are EMOTIONAL creatures...You were giving her something she wanted from her man, yet found it in you. She is with her man because of 3 years sounds like..and she is scared to leave. Families have NOTHING to do with it... That is a lame excuse and she is digging. I would leave her be.....let her come to you YET, I wouldn't be so easy to profess my love for her..Love needs to be earned...sounds to me you are the one getting hurt...not her! -Be Strong! SuperDave71

What good could come from this? Ask yourself this..I have feelings for alot of people yet, if I can't see the positive in something..why try or make an effort? Be Strong, SuperDave71

The no contact allows BOTH partners to take a step back from one another and regroup (Meaning you focus on yourself rather than the relationship) This also allows you to think about why and how the relationship ended and possibly how you want it to be when you get back together. Hang in there and keep your chin up. I have been there too....stay focused on your goal and try to be patient. REMEMBER: Good thing come to those who wait!!! -Your Friend, SuperDave71