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thanks for the advice....i really like her but i dont wont to push her into anythnig if she isnt ready......

thanks for the advice........we actually went out to dinner last night.....it was a good time i know she likes me i think just maybe she is trying to feel me out to make sure im done with my ex so i am willing to take my time and not pressure her.....

Everyone Its Me I Haven't Wrote Anything In Awhile ...... First Off I Want To Thank Everyone Who Read My Post And Helped Me Out........Ok So Heres The Situation Im Kinda Talkin To This Girl Alot Who I Really Like.....Now We Have Been Talkin For Like A Yr Or So..... ok so she hung out witth like me and all my friends when i was back with my ex ......now we talked on the phone alot and i told her what was going on she was a good friend........so one night while i was still with my ex but having problems we went out and we talked like all night and at the end of the night we hooked up....no i know i shouldnt of but like the moment was there and it was quick..know she didnt back away and actually i did and then she kissed me again.....so anyway we talked after that we hung out a few times and still talked....so know i know she kinda likes me but im with my ex at the time but when i was with her she made me feel really good and i had a good time with her...but i didnt want to ruin what i went back to with my ex cause we have kids and i really wasnt sure what i wanted.. everytime me and this girl hung out she had a great time and she made me feel good while my ex treated me like crap....so anyway as u all now from my post me and my ex are done and i will never ever go back to her....now me and this have been talking and hanging out alot latley....but know its weird cause when we hang out we have a great time she says she enjoys hangin out with me and i know she likes me we went away for the weekend to go see a ball game and she said she had a great time.....and everytime we hang out she is always smiling laughing and having fun and i enjoy being with her...so i really dont know what too i like her and i could def be with her and i think she likes me but i think she is a little skeptical cause she thinks i might go back with my ex she told me this i told her never....and plus the fact that i have kids and all i dont know if she is ready for all that..so please give advice on what to say to her or what to do to show her that i want to be with her more then a friend.....

i went t hrough the same thing and going threw it again with the same person if u read my forum....im still having trouble getting over her but im trying to move on and forget and just be free and do whatever whenever just try to keep busy and dont think about her as much its hard to do it i know but u have to in order to move on.....i still have to talk to her and see her cause we have two kids that makes it harder but im trying to be strong and im avoiding her as much as possible...

well its a new day i havent talked to her in since 6pm yesterday and i dont plan on calling her waiting for her to call i just cant believe she is with someone else already......oh well i guess people never changed..

oh well i think its over for good this time i i found out she was with someone else lastnight so im packing all my things and moving back home again so my life stars over once againi hope this time i can be strong and move on i just love her so much and i just cant believe she did this to me again......ill miss her and i know iwont be able to sleep or eat for days im already going on two days with no food.....just like i said before ill say it again you dont know what you got till its gone...y does love have to hurt so bad

ok i will do that ill keep u posted

ok some advice i meeting her tonight at my daughters practice to watch her should i try talkin to her and what should i say...

well i dunno whats going on sll i know is she called me like 20 min ago asked how i was and asked where i went last night then i asked her where she went and she said shopping i doubt that at 930 at night oh well i guess we will see what happens

well we all live in a mother daughter house cause of our sitituation with the kids we both work and her mom takes care of the kids i know it wasnt smart to do but here and her mom our close its not that i dont get along with her parents i do i mean i have known them for 15yrs its just that her mom sometimes gets on everyones nerves and i think my ex is just stressed out all day and she takes her frustration out on me alot of times...

ok i have to do thisi mean she is the only women for me i love her so much and it hurt me once when she was with someone else and i went crazy this time i cant do it i have to be strong for myself andmy kids...i just dont get it i mean everything was ok in the apt.. then we moved into a house and now its not i think its more to do with us living with her parents and all no peace no privicay i dunno its weird... oh well iguess we will see what happens...

well i did leave i am staying with a friend but im almost positive she was with a guy she really dosent have to many gf and plus she told me she would call later in the evening and she didnt and now its like 915 i am so pissed i cant even think i love her so much and i dont want to loose her again so i will not call her i will wait for her call but the thing is if she dont call me i have to call her cause i need more colthes im so confused i mean i could have went out last night and been with a girl but i didnt i cant do that again i only want to be with her so i am going to do whatever it takes if it she was with a guy oh well i just let it go and i wont question her ...

NOW IM REALLY MAD LAST NIGHT I LEFT AND STAYED AT MY FRIENDS I CALLED TO SAY GOODNIGHT TO THE KIDS AND I ALSO WHAT TO TALK TO HER TO ASK HER A QUESTION REGARDING THE KIDS..BUT WHEN I ASKED FOR I FOUND OUT SHE WASNT HOME SHE WENT OUT I KNOW SHE WENT OUT WITH A GUY I CANT HANDLE THIS ANYMORE...SHE SAID SHE DIDNT WANT TO HURT ME AND THAT SHE CARED ABOUT ME AND THAT SHE WASNT INTERTED IN ANYELSE AND THAT SHE JUST NEEDS SPACE SO HOW IS SHE GETTING SPACE IF SHE IS OUT WITH SOME OTHER GUY.... IM SO CONFUSED AND AGRAVATED

WELL THATS WHAT I WILL HAVE TO DO TREAT HER LIKE A WOMEN WHICH I THOUGHT I WAS DOING I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HER AGAIN I LOVE HER MORE THEN ANYTHING...

CAUSE I LOVE HER AND SHE IS THE ONLY WOMEN THAT MAKES ME HAPPY I HAVE BEEN WITH SI MANY WOMEN SHE IS THE ONE FOR ME I THINK I HAVE TO DO WHAT IS BEST I AM GOING TO LEAVEAND MOVE OUT GIVE HER SPACE AND JUST HANG OUT WITH HER LIKE FRIEND ANDLET HER COME BACK TO ME I HOPE I CAN DO IT WITHOUT LOSING HER AGAIN IM JUST AFARID IF I GIVE HER TO MUCH SPACE SHE MIGHT LEAVE ME AGAIN...

SO HERE WE ARE ON MONDAY AUG 9 ALL IS WELL NICE DAY ......AND MY LIFE SUCKS I CANT TAKE IT ANY MORE I DONT KNOW WHAT SHEWANT SHE WENT OUT FRI WITH HER FRIEND FROM 1030 TILL 4AM CAME HOME WENT TO BED NO KISS NO HI NOTHING IT NOT LIKE I WAITING UP BUT I GET WOORIED WHEN SHE GOES OUT THERE R A LOT OF CRAZYS OUT THERE....ANY WAY THEN SAT COMES MY BDAY SHE WAKES UP NO KISS GOODMORNIG NO HAPPY BIRTHDAY NOTHING SO I STAY IN BED CAUSE IM TIRED SHE COMES HOME LIKE AT 1130 NO IM UP DOING STUFF AROUND THE HOUSE...THE KIDS GIVE ME A CARD AND IT SAYS FROM EVERYONE SO I SAY THANXS THEN SHE SAYS I DIDNT GET U ANYTHING YET BUT I WILL LATER I SAID OK SO THEN I GO ABOUT MY BUSINESS AND SPEND ALL DAY WITH HER DAD FIXING THE HOUSE SHE WENT OUT A FEW TIMES WHICH WAS NO BIGGIE THEN LIKE AROUND 4 SHE SAID THEY DIDNT HAVE WHAT I WANTED SO SHE WILL LOOK SOMEWHERE ELSE LATER IM LIKE OK WHATEVER....THEN SHE SAIDSHE WAS GOING FOR A WALK IN THE PARK WITH HER FRIEND FROM WORK SOME GIRL I SAID OK SHE SAID WE WILL GO OUT TO EAT ILL BE HOME IN AN HOUR SO I SAID OK I SHOULD BE DONE....SO AN HOUR WENT BYE AND SHE DIDNT COME TILL LIKE 2 HRS SO I DIDNT GET DRESSED OR NOTHING I WAS WAITING TO MAKE SURE SHE STILL WANTED TO GO EAT SO SHE CAME HOME AND I SAID WE STILL GOING SHE SAID YEAH SO I TOOK A SHOWER GOT DRESSED AND WE LEFT NOW IN THE CAR ON THE WAY THERE AND ASKED HER IF EVERYTHING WAS OK AND SHE GAVE A LOOK LIKE SHE DIDNT WANT TO BE BOTHERED NO MIND U I HAVENT SEEN HER ALL DAY I WAS DOING STUFF FOR HER FOR THE HOUSE AND SHE CAN NEVER TALK TO ME... SO WE GET TO RESTURANT I CAN SEE SHE IS AGRAVET I DONT KNOW WHY,,,,SO WE ORDER FOOD AND WE JUST STAR TALKING ABOUT THINGS BUT I SEE SHE ISNT HAPPY SO IAM GETTING A LTTLE MAD CAUSE IT S MY BDAY AND ITS LIKE SHE DIDNT WANNA BE THERE.. SO AFTER DINNER WE LEFT ON THE RIDE HOME WE WERE TALKING AND SHE SHE WAS LIKE WE ARE DONE I CANT DO THIS ANYMORE U R ANNOYING AND AND U RUINED MY NIGHT SO NOW WE ARE ARGUING THE CAR AND THE KIDS ARE WITH US SO I SAID ILL TALK TO U WHEN WE GET HOME SHE KEPT SAYING IM NOT TALKING TO U ANYMORE IM DONE TALKING I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER THE ONLY THIN I THINK IS SHEIS SEEING OR TALKING TO ANOTHER GUY ....THEN SUN COMES I WAKE UP SHE WAKES UP I SLEPT ON THE COUCH I SAY IM SOORY FOR WHATEVER I DID IF ANYTHING THEN I LEAVE HER ALONE AND I DO MY THING ME AND HER DAD HAD MORE STUFF TO DO AROUND THE HOUSE SO AGAIN I LEFT HER ALONE ALL DAY SUN THEN I HELPED HER PAINT THE BATHROOM AND EVERYTHING SEEMED OKTHEN LIKE AROUND 4 OR 5 SHE SAID SHE WAS GOING TO HER FRIENDS HOUSE TO HANG OUT I SAID OK HAVE FUN..ATHEN I SAIDWHAT R WE DOING FOR DINNER AND SHE SAID SHE WASNT HUNGRY AND SHE LL PROB EAT THERE SO I SAID OK ...SO LIKE 8 CAME SHE WAS DRESSED ALL NICE AND I SAID WERE U GOING SHE SAID TO HER FRIENDS AND WE MIGHT GO TO EAT I SAIDD OK SHE WAS LOOKING GOOD SO I WAS KINDA WONDERING SO MAYBE SHE SAW IT IN MY REACTION WHEN I ASKED HER WHERE SHE WAS GOING....I DUNNO THEN SHE LEFT AT 830 I SAID BYE GAVE HER A KISS AND SAID HAVE A GOOD TIME NOW I WENT IN THE ROOM AND WATCH TV AND CHILLED WHILE THE KIDS PLAYED THEN LIKE AT 11 MY LITTLE ONE WOKE ME UP AND ASKED WHERE MOMMY WAS I SAID OUT SHE BE HOME LATER SHE LIKE I WANNA CALL HER I SAID NO WAIT TILL SHE GETS HOME BUT SHE WANTED TO TALK TO HER SO SHE CALLED THEN 10 MIN LATER SHE CAME IN THE ROOM ANDSAID THAT HER FRIEND SAID SHE WILL BE HOME SOON SHE JUST LEFT I SAID OK I WAS STILL LAYING IN BED SO LIKE 20 MIN GO BYE AND SHE ISNT HOME SO NOW I GET WORRIED CAUSE IT ONLY TAKES LIKE 5 MIN TO GET HOME SO I CALLED HER TO SEE WHERE SHE WAS AND SHE DIDNT ANSWER SO I WAS LIKE OK MAYBE SHE DIDNT LEAVE RIGHT THEN SO I WOULD WAIT LIKE 5 OR 10 MIN SO THEN I LAYED BACK DOWN AND THE PHONE RANG I PICKED IT UP NO ONE WAS THER SO I DIALED STAR 69 AND SAW IT WAS HER SO I CALLED BACK AND NO ANSWER SO NO I AM REALLY WANDERING IF SHE IS OK THEN I WITED LIKE 5 MIN AND DID IT AGIAN SHE ANSWERED AND I SAID R U ON YOUR WAY HOME AND SHE WAS LIKE NOT YET IM STILL HERE SO I SAID OH OK CAUSE MY LITTLE ONE SAID U WERE ON YOUR WAY HOME AND SHE SAID I DIDNT WANT HER TO BOTHER ME SO I TOLD MY FRIEND TO SAY THAT...SO NO I WAS REALLY WANDERING I DONT THINK SHE WENT TO HER FRIENDS HOUSE BUT OH WELL ITS TO LATE KNOW...CAUSE NOW SHE WANTS ME TO LEAVE AGAIN.. ILL WRITE MORE LATER I NEED TO THINK SORRY FOR BEING SO LONG..

WELL AGE DOESNT REALLY MATTER ITS JUST IF HE IS MATURE AND ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF U I MEAN IM 32 AND DATING A 29 YR OLD I MEAN HE IS ONLY 24 I THINK HE MIGHT BE KINDA A YOUNG FOR U IM SURE HE LIKE TO GO OUT WITH HIS AGE GROUP AND DO THINGS WHILE U ARE THE OLDEST ONE IN THE GROUP... BUT HEY IF HE TREATS U GOOD AND IS PLAYING AROUND THEN U GOT IT GOOD

WELL IF U ARE CONFUSED U SHOULDNT SLEEP WITH HIM CAUSE THEN HE WILL THINK EVERYTHING IS OK LET HIM SLEEP ON THE COUCH OR U SLEEP ON THE COUCH TRY SOME SPACE

maybe u guys should just take some space from each other no sex maybe lunch or dinner now and again but you guys need space i am in a bad sitituation myself read my post i am giving her space know and she is coming to me sometimes instead of megoing to her

so everything was kinda okay last night i really didnt see he r all day cause she was out with the kids and when she came home like at 830 i was doing stuff round the house then i went to bed before her and when i woke up everything seemed okay i dont know what else to do i like being with er as much as i can and like ths morning i woke up and i gave her a kiss and hug good bye and she was like okay ill talk to u later so i dont know whats wrong with her its like she kinda dont care....

ok u have bought up good issues and i will try my best i will keep you posted

ok u have bought up good issues and i will try my best i will keep you posted

i thank u both for the advice i will try whatever it takes.....like today its going on noon and i havent talked to her all day so i am trying to give her space like she wants

WELL I DO EVERYTHING I CAN TO MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL I TAKE CARE OF HER HELP HER CLEAN TAKE HER OUT SAY NICE THINGS TO HER SHOW HER AFFECTION I MEAN I TREAT HER LIKE A PRINESS

well ok thats what ill do ill ignore it and like it dont bother me and maybe she will come to me