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BTW, does anybody else find it weird she was making her car very obvious? She could have parked around the corner just to hide it and it would have gone unoticed and its a very very short walk so clearly shes sending a message. Apparentley, word has gotten to her that I went on a date with a girl that is her good friends sister. But i didnt date her out of vengeance...I did it because shes a classmate that Ive always sorta liked

For those of you that dont know my story about my breakup read here: link removed but long story short my ex never got over her ex and after a year and a half of taking the problems with her ex and eventually her bad attitude ( because she was dwelling on the ex but was in denial that she still liked him claiming she felt bad that he had the "upperhand")I just had enough and we had one fight too many and I just left...she enforced the breakup however. Anyway, it turns out yesterday my cousin passed by her ex's place and her car was there and her ex sadly is a neigbhor of my cousins. She was there around 12:30-2:30 AM! Im so happy to hear this because he treats her like garbage...just pure garbage and Im so happy he'll put her butt back in place and when he just sleeps with her and leaves her then she will truly know what she lost. The good news is I finally got my closure out of this because it was true...she was a bad person who lied to me and pertended she loved me when another man had her heart. Your thoughts will be highly appreciated

BTW, Moneca or anyone. This girl was obsessed with me! Wanted to marry me! And the thought of breaking up made her cry so hard. A friend of hers told me she does nothing now and is still single and is basically stuck in a rut. I havent spoken to her in 2 months...once her pride wears off..you think shell contact me back? I still have some talking to do as far as what she put me through. I kinda dwell on that..wether or not shell ever talk to me again.

Muneca..that is very very true! I look back at the relationship and go...wow I would never take that stuff again. So I definitley agree with you. My head is very straight and she would barely be able to recognize me if she ever saw me again

To everyone on this post...thank you so much. Ive had a pretty weird time with this no contact thing and I felt so along and now to see you all going through it makes me feel good. Mr. Good man keep the wisdom coming man and to the person who is going through 2 months of NC I feel you man EXACT SAME SITUATION here......keep yo head up and find some new girl...just remember the highs werent that high but the lows were real low...and also if you were the better mate walk away knowing they will regret it one day

Hey guys Im new here but I was going through the internet and found this forum to be exactly what im going through. The whole no contact thing and what it has done for me and here I go. It's kinda long but very informitive if you wanna know the truth about NC breakups; I was with this girl for 1 year and 5 months but Ive known her since high school and I was really there for her like crazy. She was 2 notches above obsessed with me. She wanted to marry me and asked for my hand in marriage several times. But the problem with the relationship was her ex bf was always in the picture. Eventually, I just got sick of it and one day at a resteraunt she turned around and made a comment like," I was with my friends today and they brought their ex's along. SEE! Not all ex's need to be out of the picture and all these girls have bfs". Suddenly, infront of the family I just broke down I couldnt take it anymore....it was like he would ALWAYS mean more to her than I did. I had enough...I was SOOOO good to this girl I mean ridiculously and everyone knew I was better looking, had so much more to offer on the table. So I went to her house the next day and she started off with an attitude. Then she turned around and said," I dont like the way you acted last night." I said what the ?! After everything you said IM the one who acted bad? I said look...I just think that even after I let you talk to your ex you still get mad at me...then she cut me off before I can finish and said you dont LET ME talk to him I can do whatever I want....I said look. Im such a good bf to you...this guy LITERALLY tried to break us up. Of course Im gonna say I let you talk to him because I should have a say in it and btw no guy out there is willing to get involved with some1 with this much baggage. She said YES THERE IS! I said nope...she said YES THERE IS! I said.....u wanna find out? She said YUP....then i just got my shoes and as I was leaving she was very scared but acted strange and I even asked," Are you sure you want to do this?" She said MHMMM....so I was in shock and as I was leaving she said can I get my pillow and the emblem I gave you. I said no..ill ship it to you screw you I never wanna see you again. So anyway....its been 2 months and I havent contacted her back. In the past 2 months she has done the following: After 2 weeks of the breakup she blocks me and all my friends from the internet as if to say well *uck you too, she has made a profile on a website where she has praised god about how shes so happy shes finally "free" then after a few days she posted another article stating how shes a changed person and how life is a funny thing..clearly shes dwelling on the past, then she has done something she was strongly against and thats made another sn so she can be on two at once so she can probably monitor my activities since shes blocked me, and she has attacked this girl I talk to claiming it was her fault for the breakup. We havent spoken since and I dont know if we ever will again....I THINK we need to talk to sort some *beep* out but in the end ive moved on and all I can say in the end is this: IF YOU WERE THE BETTER PERSON IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND YOU WERE REALLY GOOD TO THEM DONT WORRY....MOVE ON AND ONE DAY.....ONE DAY THEY WILL KNOW WHAT YOU MEANT. THEN THEY WILL CRUMBLE. BUT BY THEN YOULL BE OFF WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND HAPPY WHILE THEY ARE STUCK WITH BROKEN PRIDE SAYING...WHY'D I DO THIS? Hope I wa sof some help.

He called because he wanted to play mind games again not because he cared about his taxes....and it looks like his game is working ( sadly). Just ignore it....remember the bad times and you MUST BE STRONG.

Na, no worries. Im happy and I'll find someone new. Im deeply hurt but at the sametime the experience was a great lesson and a reality I couldnt escape. I will miss certain times with her and thats hard to say....but I must stay strong and remember the reason why we needed to go...we all need to do this. But....technically she let go of me