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yeah i really should ask girl A where she plans to take this whole thing. thanks for the replies =)

ok so i've been seeing this girl(girl A). I'm not sure if you would call it dating or not though. She told me she had a crush on me and i was like ok awesome, i've always thought you were cute. "lets hang out". so we did, and we kissed and then i spent the night at her place. No sex though. Then 2 days later she comes over to my place and we chill out in the hot tub and then we make out and fool around and she spends the night with me. but no sex sex. We are supposed to hang out again tonight. Awesome. Here's my situation, this other girl(girl B) who i was sort of talking to before i got in with girl A messaged me the other night and then called me. We were going to hang out and get to know each other about 2 weeks ago, but it sort of fell through and i kind of gave up on it. Now she finally wants to hang out with me. I'm like oh well, thats cool. and i kind of want to hang out with her too. I sometimes get the vibe from girl A that she's not looking for a relationship but at the same time i am. Would you consider us, me and girl A, dating? Cause i feel really bad about wanting to see this girl(girl B). I feel like things are going well with girl A at times, but then again i feel like its all falling apart at times, cause we dont really share much in common we are just kind of into each other. I honestly don't know what i have with girl B either, but both me and Girl A are in the "single" status. So its not like we're going out. Why do i feel like i'm cheating? maybe its because if anything does become of me and girl A, i will be throwing it away by even spending time with girl B. I need some advice. thoughts?

so um yeah i was able to cum finally. i forgot to update this but the next day she got on top and we did it a certain way and i came hardcore.

dude i'm having the same problem right now! seriously! i get so close and then it goes away. And i start getting exhausted and can't do anymore. I do have fun and i do have a good time. But my girlfriend feels bad because i can't finish. She wants me to finish, and wants me to be pleased. So when i don't she worries that she's doing something wrong or that i don't like her or something. i hate to say it but, I think my penis is too used to my hand T_T so i think from reading that maybe i should try and not masturbate like ever again? and just wait for when we are together. then maybe it will get better stimulation and i'll finally cum during sex.

i figured it'd be best if we didn't keep in touch but now i kinda wish i at least gave her my email. i told her when i left to look me up when she was 18. so who knows.

hey man i don't have really have anything on the advice, but, im in the same situation you are. I've been in love with a friend of mine, who is a girl, since i met her. I've wanted to express my feelings for her but i don't want to lose the small bit of relationship we have. She ended up going far away for college so i don't get to see her but maybe twice a year. She's always dating other guys which doesn't bother me. I just wish i could be one. The thing wouldn't work either cause the fact it's long distance too. and just when i think i've gotten over her, i see her on her visits and all my feelings come back up again. i just try not to mess with her at all. as much as i want it. i just don't think it was meant to be. and i try to move on. so anyway i just wanted to relate to your situation and maybe we can both get some advice.

I met the coolest girl yesterday and ended up spending the whole day with her pretty much. Right as i wanted to ask her out i figured i should see how old she is. So during conversation i asked, and she said she was 15! i really can't judge age anymore. I'll be 21 this may and it sux that the girl i finally meet and want to ask out is way to young for me.

well i actually had a talk with her before i got your response, and i sorda hinted on that subject enough to know what i was talkin about, and she said she didn't look at me like that but more like a brother. and like you said it isn't all that akward she's still callin me everyday, ha anyway when i really think about it, most of the time, we're better off friends. well i just wanted to share that, and thanx for your reply

thanks for the advice man i really apprieciate it, ill give that a try i will

ok look i know this is the same old story, but is there no one? maybe someone who can help me with a detailed response? ive seen you guys reply before. im starting wonder if this site is worth anything...

Ok here's the thing, me and this girl i know i have been friends for like 5 years. ive always been there for here when she needed advice from guys, or needed help with homework or, if her boyfriend wasn't around and needed company i was there, kinda like an unofficial boyfriend it would seem. she's two years younger than me so back then i never really knew whether i liked her or not. but now she's older and seems more my age, my thoughts of her are different. ive been with her through thick and then, through her relationships, through her family problems, to whom i'm also close with, and i know more than most about her. it seems like we're always together, or talking on the phone. she would come to see me everyday after school last year, and during the time she had a boyfriend, its not like we did anything that would insue cheating. she just came over and hung out. her boyfriend never seemed to mind. but now with them, they fight alot, and i know she's not happy. she tells me, and we talk about it everyday on the phone. anyway what im trying to get to here is, for the past 5 years with her, as a friend, she's always asked me for advice on guys or what she should do next, in terms of a relationship. and im always goin crazy im my mind trying to figure out a way to tell her, YOU and ME!. so i always feel like, hey lets hook up, (in a relationship), but i can never get that out, it seems to me, that im just her friend. and i do like being her friend you know? but i feel that we could be so much more, i know i'd make her happy, it seems we'd go together real well. and its hard to cross that line to discuss that with her. i don't wanna lose any of her attention, i wanna be her friend and be there for her at the same time, forever. but i fear that if i were to try and take it to the next level i would jepeordize things and just ruin it all, and thats the kicker, thats whats keeping me from going anywhere. i know she's likes being around me, i know she thinks im funny, i know she likes to see me and talk to me, yet i just can't read her. i don't know if she's just being my friend or if she's is sometimes, hinting towards something more. im really losing my mind over it, and i know something as powerful as love should never be kept inside. but i dont wanna lose her in anyway friend or girlfriend. I really care about her.

well see im not always crazy about her body, i mean sure that would be a bonus if we we're goin out, and the thing is I've been waiting it out for like 4 years. im one of her only friends, and I've known about all the guys she dated. and they always end up messin it up for her. i just wanna give her a good relationship

well i guess i love her then. i mean i do care about her, sure i think she's pretty and all, but i also like to hang with her talk, i worry when she's having trouble. and i like to see her happy. so yes i do love her. i mean ive known her for like 4 years, and its just hard to go to the next step. i don't want to lose what friendship we have now, just because i want it to be more. i guess i just need to think more about it.

i mean she's my good friend and I've always thought she was beautiful, and I'm not sure exactly what I'm feeling about her. I like her as a friend and maybe i wanna make it more, but I can't tell... anyone have any advice?

but its so hard to tell her how do you break the ICE!?!? and this is for a girl who is my friend.

i agree with sweetlove

holy crap that aint right haha yeah lemme fix that. oh and if anyone has anymore advice on what to say kind of an ice breaker i'd appreciate it.. thanx

well i have another question sorda, im in the same situation for me and this girl, its not like we're best friends, but we are friends and do talk to each other and hang out and stuff, but yeah like you dude i want it to be more, and it seems that it would only make sense that since we're such good friends that would only open the door for something like a dating relationship, i really hope that there is at least some chance for me and her, but who knows

that is exactly the same situation i am in now, i even have a post for it. but like the site says, your not alone. i wish i knew what to say. but the simplist advice i can say is, if you never ask or tell, you'll never know.

OK i just turned 20, and ive known this girl who is a friend of mine, for like 4 years, since high school. ive always liked her, and we've always been friends. we've been to concerts and all sorts of stuff, we do the dinner and a movie thing, usually, whenever she comes to visit her family down here. yet, i can't live with myself without telling her how i truly feel. ive seen her go thru like 4 boyfriends. and everytime i wish i had done or said something. She recently became single again. The truth is i love her, as a friend, and as something more. and i really want it to be more, but if i tell her, it could screw up our friend relationship, and i want to have at least some kind of relationship. im crazy about this girl and i don't know how to show it! i guess it's a lose - lose situation. i just dont' think she feels the same way. but she's a real friendly person, and im pretty close with her and her family. so its not like i don't know her well. although if i never tell her, i know i will regret it. because then, to me, she will have been the one that got away. one of the reasons it so hard, is she lives so far away like im in texas and she's in tennessee, she moved after we got outta high school. i just finished last semester at my college and im tryin to get a job and i don't have much to my name at the moment. but im workin on it. i don't think im not handsome or anything, people have told me i am. i could lose a few more pounds though, i really don't think physical appearance has anything to do with it, but who knows. anyway... she lives at a distance so the relationship would be weird anyway, i'd want to see her, not just talk to her. so like I'd tell her how i felt, and even if she said she kinda felt the same way. we wouldn't get to see each other. and on top of that i sometimes feel like if i did tell her, it be something else she has to worry about. for some reason she seems stressed out lately, and i don't want to be another burden to her. and i don't know what to do. i just need some advice. its tearing me up inside and i have like a week or so left to tell her in person or whatever. then she wont be back til like christmas, i think... if anyone could help me with what i need to say i'd apprieciate a bunch. thanx