Starkitty

I still dunno how to ask this guy out that I like. I saw him this week and it looks like he still likes me He looked at me alot, mirrored stuff I did. Smiled when I talked to him and had a glaze in his eyes. I *think* his friends were teasing him cos I heard them teasing him for waiting for someone and him liking whoever it was. I dunno if they ment me or not, but it might have been cos I think I was the only girl left to leave. I actualy talked to him for awhile, but when I open my mouth to ask him out no words came out! lol. I look at him and freeze! He's always surround by guys and I can't seem to get him alone. My friend suggested giving him a note, but that seems a bit childish since he's about 20 something. I don't have any mutal friends to find out how he feels about me. I really like him alot! but I have no idea what to actualy say.. or how I'm going to say it when his friends are always there any advice please? I only see him once a week and I'm really running out of time. I think he's too shy too ask me too. I'm not scared of rejection. I'm scared of asking him in front of his friends and sounding lame lol. Thanks - Starkitty

Thanks thats a good idea to let it show that it doesn't bother me. This friend could have any girl he wants and I think he sleeps around, thats why I didn't think he'd be interested in me.

I might be seeing my crush next week. The problem is that since I asked his friend if my crush has a gf or not his friend has been kinda weird around me. When I asked him he looked kinda p*****d off told me he didn't know and walked off. Since then he's been giving me looks... I can't work out what kind off look it is. I can't work out if it's a i'm p*****d off look or something else. I was talking to a friend of mine and didn't notice him watching me and listening in to the convo. I didn't mention anything about my crush. My prob is that this friend is going to be there on a course with me and my crush and i'm worried that this friend might be mad at me? or upset with me? but appart from asking if my crush has a gf I haven't really said anything else to him. I'm just worried that this friend might start being rude to me in front of my crush when I don't even know why. I don't think this friend would have a serious crush on me.

I been single for nearly 3 years and i'm sick of being alone I know that my shyness has alot to do with it. I'm really sweet, loving and funny *I try to be lol* but all thats going to waste because of my shyness and no one gets to know that side of me I know that some guys like me, but everytime I like a guy and I'm certain he likes me too I end up getting neavous around them and missing my chance to ask them out. Theres a guy i really like * I mentioned him in another post* I'm certain he likes me for so many reasons and I missed my chance to ask him out I don't know if I'll ever see him again, but I know if I do I'll still be too shy to ask him out I really really really like him alot! and I don't want to give up on him because I'm sure I'll see him somewhere *hopefully* Does anyone know a realistic way of overcoming my shyness enough to let him get to know me better? or to ask him to go for a drink with me? I haven't talked to him much and he's usualy around his friends. I really like him and I don't want my shyness to ruin another oppertunity for me... I don't wanna be single forever and he and I have alot in common. He's not shy, but he is around me so I'll have to make the first move. Thanks, - Starkitty

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Thanks I'm so sick of being shy so I'm going to try so hard not to be when I see him. There isn't really any "middle man" there is a girl I could talk to about it, but I have the feeling she'd tell everyone and that will make it harder. Thanks for replying - Starkitty

Theres I guy I like that I'm sure likes me too or did the last time I saw him. We're both on a course together, but for a few hours once a week. It's nearly all guys and he sits with them. My problem is finding something to say to him or trying to join in the convo that they're having. I'm sick of beeing seen as shy! I know that I have the guts to talk to people and my confidence is getting better. At first I couldn't even look him in the eyes. I've spoken to him once, but not for long I felt nearvous at first and then I was able to look him straight in the eyes and talk to him. I can't talk to just him because that would mean interrupting him while he talks to his friends and his friends might make fun of me because they'll work out I have a crush on him. One of his friends know I have a crush on him which makes it harder for me because the guy I like might know by now that I like him too. He's tried to talk to me, but he seems a little bit shy around me and only does when theres not many people there. I think he could have asked me out or tried to talk to me alone once, I had to go for some reason and he had an expression on his face like great I just missed my chance! I really want to ask him out, but I want to talk to him first. I would try saying hi, but I know it wouldn't turn into much of a convo. I can't keep waiting for him to try to talk to me because I bet it's just as hard for him as it is for me and if we're going to be together being shy isn't gonna help. Anyone have any advice plz? Thanks. - Starkitty

I don't know how I'm gonna bump into him because I have to go to work straight after but I like him too much to give up so I'll have to think of something soon.

I think you should call or text her, she might say no, but if you don't ask you'll never know and if she does like you and is too shy to say anything you will have lost your chance. Don't put yourself down because I'm sure your a great person!

That used to happen to me when I was younger. Alot of psychics relax and meditate to do their psychic readings. They go into a alpha state which means that their brainwaves slow down. I think you must go into the alpha state while your asleep and maybe thats why your seeing the future in your dreams. It might not be such a bad thing because you could warn someone if you dream something bad will happen to them.

Just curious... What do guys really want from a relashionship? Do all guys cheat? Do all guys only want one thing? What do guys think of love? If a guy shows alot of interest in you how would you know what they were after? Thanks - Starkitty

I was gonna ask him out today, but when I got to the course I found out it was split in two different groups. He's in one and I'm in the other. We didn't get to choose. I proberbly never get to see him again unless he asks to be in the group I'm in. I dunno what to do now. I can't ask anyone for his number and I don't really know anyone that knows him that well.

It sounds like she likes you, but make sure it's not just because of your popularity. If you date her you can still be good friends. If being her friend means more to you than being her boyfriend then just stay friends.

Is he in alot of plays? Maybe find a way of being in the same play and if you're too shy to be on stage find out if you can help with costumes, lighting... stuff like that. You could help him rehearse his lines. Find out what his interests are. Do you know anyone that could tell you what he likes? Good luck! -Starkitty

Find some pictures of a clit on the internet you should get a good idea where it is from that.

Thanks I'll see him on Thursday. I'm gonna try to ask him out.

Thank you both so much those are great ideas I just need to work out what he can help me with now. Thanks again, -Starkitty

TheOneGman23, I have the exacty same problem! but with a guy! If you find out the best way to do it let me know. If I find the best way I'll let you know

I think that her not looking you in the eye is a good thing because like someone said she could be nearvous. Is she usualy shy around other guys? When I really like a guy I find it hard to look at them, but If I'm not interested I have no problem. Might be different with her though. Good luck! -StarKitty

Hi, I just joined I know this guy likes me or did the last time I saw him. I won't see him again for another 2 weeks. I overheard him ask his friends if I had a Boyfriend and he looks at me alot. I smiled at him and he gave me a huge grin back. He still looks at me alot so I'm guessing he likes me. The problem is we havent really talked before and I'm quite shy so I can never think of anything to say to him. He's always surrounded by guys and I feel akward about asking to speak to him alone when we've never really talked before and I don't want his friends making fun of me because it's going to be obvious that I'm trying to ask the him out. The next time I see him I'm not gonna have alot of time to talk to him and I've noticed him look at me and show interest in me for about 3 months now. I don't want him to give up and think that nothing will happen between us. I dont want to seem obsessive by trying too hard to show I'm interested. I read that guys prefur girls to ask them out. My problem is finding a way that doesn't sound cheesy, overcoming my shyness enough to approach him, getting him away from his friends without feeling akward or looking obvious and thinking of something good to say. He's not too shy, but I think he'd be shy about asking me out and I really need to make the first move. Any advice? Thanks - Starkitty