gigicarmx Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 Yesterday me and my ex chatted and I said about a memory and he said that he thought of it early in the morning. We chatted again today. He asked me what I had been doing and I said I had my hair done He asked to see so I sent a photo and he said I suited it He suddenly went cold and a little blunt on me... Why?? I have now blocked him for closure. H E L P ME Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 It looks like you've solved the problem. What is it you need help with? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 What do you mean cold and blunt? Is he looking for hookups or fwb? Is that the point of his chitchat? He suddenly went cold and a little blunt on me...I have now blocked him for closure. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted October 20, 2016 Author Share Posted October 20, 2016 No he went like off as though he was annoyed at me. I'm silly I know, he said he just wanted to be friends but keeps bringing up the past like talking about our memories Link to comment
kbbcoop77 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 Block and no contact... Link to comment
Andrina Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 There is no reason to be friends with an ex. Your new bf won't appreciate it, and when your gets a gf, he will ignore you. Be friends with people you haven't had sex with. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted October 20, 2016 Author Share Posted October 20, 2016 He said he doesn't want to be back with me as he doesn't feel the same and the relationships been ruined He doesn't think we will ever be together again but can't see himself in a relationship for a long time I said I need time to heal and deleted whatsapp If he wants to reconcile he knows where I am Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 Listening to this is like garbage to your ears. It's polluting your healing, peace and moving on. Block him on everything not just 'delete' so that you can leave this window open.He said he doesn't want to be back with me as he doesn't feel the same and the relationships been ruined ] Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 He said he doesn't want to be back with me as he doesn't feel the same and the relationships been ruined He doesn't think we will ever be together again but can't see himself in a relationship for a long time I said I need time to heal and deleted whatsapp If he wants to reconcile he knows where I am Good girl. Ignore the jerk and take your time to heal. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted October 20, 2016 Author Share Posted October 20, 2016 It's just effing stupid how he can't say no getting back together at all or yes we will. It's annoying cos he has no idea what he wants. But I don't care anymore. Need to focus on me and my studies Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 Why can't you call the shots and just block him..or do you love the drama?It's just effing stupid how he can't say no getting back together at all or yes we will. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted October 20, 2016 Author Share Posted October 20, 2016 I have blocked him, deleted whatsapp blocked his number. He has no social media so can't access me on Facebook or anything. I don't love drama at all, I've been genuinely confused but cba anymore Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 I have blocked him, deleted whatsapp blocked his number. He has no social media so can't access me on Facebook or anything. I don't love drama at all, I've been genuinely confused but cba anymore Case closed then. Stop your brain when you think of him consciously change the subject. It's time for you to begin healing and to stop wanting to figure him out with the help of strangers on a message board. He is not with you in the way you want so now you have to train your brain to get him out of your life in all ways... consciously, sub consciously, physically, and through social media which only works to keep you mired in your thoughts of him. Good luck in school... put your efforts there for now. Link to comment
gigicarmx Posted October 20, 2016 Author Share Posted October 20, 2016 School is always gonna be the best distraction Link to comment
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