Carolyn6579 Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 How can you ask a person to trust you 2 days after you tell them that they was right and you did cheat on them several years before and lied about it and it wasn't the first time you did it...does it matter the time frame because to me a lie is a lie and the fact that you hid it so long is even worst..please help..... Link to comment
mhowe Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 I hope you aren't married to this idiot. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 I'm assuming this is in reference to your soon to be ex. Either way, are you seriously expecting to hear the truth from someone who cheats and lies? Walk away with your head held high, and allow him to continue to hang himself. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 and it wasn't the first time This tells you it won't be the last either. You can't trust an untrustworthy person. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 This goes beyond cheating. Hasn't this guy also physically and emotionally abused you? Why are you still surprised? I thought you were filing for divorce and ending this marriage? What are you waiting for! Link to comment
Dottieflanogon Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 You have no reason to trust him anymore.A marriage/relationship cannot survive without trust. See a divorce lawyer right away.You will feel an immense sense of relief as soon as you done so Link to comment
ParisPaulette Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 You tell the moron that his "confession" and demand to "now trust him for telling the truth" holds about as much water as a murderer walking into a police station and telling them to drop the outstanding warrant for his arrest, because he's coming clean and confessing to the crime. Sorry, nope. You still have to do the time for the crime. Tell him he doesn't get a cookie and a pat on the head just because he fessed up to being a dirtbag. Then leave him and move on. Come on, guy gaslighted the crap out of you, probably rubbed your face in how "wrong" you were and it turns out you were right all along? Yeah, you don't want to know what I'd do if someone confessed that to me. Let's just say they'd be singing falsetto in an opera or wearing soup for dinner. And right after that be on the street. Just turn this bozo out into the street. Link to comment
DoF Posted November 20, 2015 Share Posted November 20, 2015 Just imagine how little he thinks of you or your intelligence levels if he thinks he can really sell you this BS. I smell extreme selfishness and arrogance. Link to comment
Carolyn6579 Posted November 20, 2015 Author Share Posted November 20, 2015 Yes i am........ Link to comment
Carolyn6579 Posted November 21, 2015 Author Share Posted November 21, 2015 Yes he has and i am filing for a divorce Link to comment
Carolyn6579 Posted November 21, 2015 Author Share Posted November 21, 2015 Nice to know that i am not crazy.... Link to comment
Carolyn6579 Posted November 21, 2015 Author Share Posted November 21, 2015 Nice to see that i am not the crazy one... Link to comment
ParisPaulette Posted November 21, 2015 Share Posted November 21, 2015 Nope, not crazy at all. And good on you for divorcing him. What the heck did he expect? A medal for honesty? (Rolls eyes) Link to comment
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