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    I'm not saying I'm the most attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and my boyfriend thinks I'm the most gorgeous woman out there (even more so then celeberties etc) He doesn't follow them anyways. But thats all that matters.

    And I'm not cocky, I do not say that they are only focusing their attention on me, or that other girls here don't get that.

    You don't seem to be getting what I am saying.

    I'm just saying there is a thin line. When the guy was texting me, the first few things were flattering and I took them as a compliment. It was when I said I was leaving and 20 minutes later he was sending text after text after text! That gets annoying. I got about 20 texts from him yesterday, less then half I replied too.

    It's that kind of thing that I don't like. That's why I don't give out my phone number. Same reason some of my GORGEOUS friends don't either. I have this one friend, she is so pretty and looks like Charlieze Theron and she was talking to this guy in class,and I told her it was blantantly obvious he was crushing on her. She said she had a boyfriend and shed just give him her number if he had school questions and after that he got obsessive and wouldn't leave her alone! Then she wished she had never given it out.

    I know tons of girls that deal with it, not giving your numbers out eliminates the problem. But this guy already HAD my number, and I didn't initiate it.

    And also the guys that are disrespectful and rude. In my Criminal Justice class, there is a man pig that sits behind me. He talks about when the girlfriend is asleep he's watching porn, and that he wishes he could look into the girls locker room, he was knocking my morals, and always wears these disgusting shirts. It's guys like THAT, that I can't stand. I feel sorry for his girlfriend. Whoever she is, she deserves better.

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    Change your number and dont give to anyone but your friends, family and BF. If it really bothers you that much, its that simple.

    I changed my number because I had ex's and some random nutty people texting, calling me all the time, problem solved. But I dont believe it will solve your "issue" because I believe there is a lot more to this then just that.

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    The 'F- off' T-shirt sounds like a good idea.

    I choose that one.

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    Ok, this topic doesn't warrant a 20-page discussion...lol

    I went to Rose's Myspace page and her pics are quite normal. Provacative does not come to mind at all...

    Rose,

    I think people are brushed off by your comments of being sooo pretty that guys hit on you....so it's become easy to ignore that your real complaint isn't necessarily the compliments, but it's the persistent compliments from someone who you've made it clear to that you aren't interested in them. I think you are annoyed by the persistance that a guy can have when hitting on a woman.

    You just need to realize that a lot of guys do this....No matter if you are taken, not attracted to them, etc..some men will hold on to that bit of hope that they can convince you to hook up with them.

    Most women have all been there and done that many times....At times it can be quite annoying, but try to just accept it as flattery and learn to ignore it/move on.

    Your issue here has nothing to do with myspace or your pics on myspace.

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    I agree.

    I coudn't understand why people thoght they were provacative.

    And that's what it is, it's not the compliment itself (singular) but its the persisitent ones, and I seem to be getting alot of that.

    The F-off shirt was a joke. I just wish some guys would sometimes getthe message.

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    Some people were caught up in the myspace pics. I think the bikini pics will tell rev up any red blooded male but that was entirely not the point i was making. Apparently that point was lost.

    The point was and has been an effort to help Rose understand that this "problem" is only a problem if she continues to view it as such. There will come a day in her life when compliments cease most likely and she should see it for what it is, flattery. And also to realize that these guys are paying attention to any women they find pretty. Some men are just like that by nature.

    I can't say i have ever once been aggravated by a compliment that wasn't vulgar. Most women aren't. It is a bizarre complaint and my posts were an attempt to help her understand how her comments are perceived and how it can make her look cocky.

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    She's not bothered by compliments...she's bothered by guys who pursue incessantly when it's been made clear that she is unavailable and not interested. Someone who constantly hits on you when you are not interested does become annoying after awhile.


    And I agree that you sometimes just have to learn how to ignore it because some guys don't know when it's time to back off.

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    Yeah I know, it just bothers me at times.

    I'm VERY loyal to my boyfriend, and some times when a guy continues to flirt with me and be a pest when I have already given the message, it makes me feel akward. Like I'm doing him wrong or something.

    I have never felt this way with any other guy but him. I liked the attention ALL the time, and I would evene flirt with other guys harmlessly at times. But since I've been with my boyfriend something has changed in me, and when guys do that it really annoys me and I ALWAYS make it clear that I'm taken. Before I wouldn't unless it was brought up.

    I guess its just something that is new and I'm not use to.

    I've always been loyal. But this time its Serious.

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    Now her pictures are not provocative? Pleeease.

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    If you want guys to leave you alone. Don't wear makeup.

    It's an easy fix.

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