melsta

i think this will be easier to under stand if i point it in point form *i meet this guy about a year ago and ive fallen for him, we talk on the fone almost every night & do things such as go to the movies regurly my problems are * im afraid he doesnt feel the same and only wants friendship * his bestfriend (female) seems to hate the idea of me and him spending time just me and him * shes told me alot of her friends have used her to get to him and i dont want to seem like im doing that shes a good friend and i dont want to lose her but im really head over heels for him PLEASE HELP

ive read your post and the replys to it mostly i agree but ive been there myself my current boyfriend and me had been together for 11 months when he meet someone else it was strange because it was his idea and i think he cryed more than i did that night. where now together and have been for over a year from the break up and i can say i know what your both going though from talking with him i now understand why he did it you see in my case i was his first everything e.g his first real gf his first kiss etc so he didnt relize it at the time we brock up but all he needed was a break to work this out, a break to realize it was me he wanted so with this in mind my advice is plan for the worst try your best to get over him but try to understand where his coming from and you never know in time you might get back together or you might meet someone better and decide you dont need him

i started a new job about 3months ago, when a first seen this guy my first thought was hes cute, over the last three months ive goten to know him and we get along good, he recently turned 21 and he invited me but i was really disapointed when i couldnt make it. one of his mates told me he was asked where i was most of the night, Thne last night him and a mate invited me too a party with them i went, the guy a like picked me up and droped me home today. last night we talked a bit nothing happened tho i wanted it to, he said a few things that made me think maybe he likes me. things like i loooked good .im very shy thats my main problem. any ideas on how i can get his attension i also dont know if i should go for it, if it gos wrong, well we have to work together

id just like to thank you all for your replys they have been very helpful, a few of you pointed out that maybe wanting to have the child with my ex is me wanting to be attached to him in some way it is not, we are great friends now, it is just a matter of the fact i would like someone i know and i dont know many people, in fact where i live now i dont know anyone. and i know this would mean i would have to give up alot my sister was a single mum and i know what it takes she knows ive been thinking about it and we have sat down and she has told me a lot of what i need to know. thats all i can think of right now thanks again for your replys

be happy that u have him because thats y she is doing it now shes doing it because she knows she cant have him, my bf had his ex doing the same thing when he wasnt with someone she never talk to him but as soon as he was with someone she wanted him and was anoyying him. so as long as u trust him u have nothing to worry about. i could trick to try would be, if she lives far enough away start a rumer that u two have broken up and she will porbly stop, coz she wont want him once she can have him lol goodluck

if u love him dont give up trust me i did and it is slowly working out for me we live far apart now but he know tells me that he loves me and wants me back and is considering moving to be with me i once asked him what made him realize he wanted me back he said he got out there but everytime he was with a new girl he keept comparing us, basically once hed lost me and i moved away he realized how much he wanted me back. try just to be friends for now but let him know u care being carful not to push. for some reason they always want what they cant have but be carfull not to make him think he can run back and forward to u as he pleases hopefully in time hell realize he wants u make him come runing back

this might sound crazy and u can put me down if u want but i want my ex to give me a child it made and i havnt asked him dont think i ever will its just how i feel, u see im 19 and would love to have a child i want to be a single mother but i dont want to go out have sex with some guy i dont even know so i can fall pregnent the reason for me saying i want it to be my ex's child is so if the chils wishes to when its older can know its father any ideas on what i could do????? plz help

my ex and i have been brocken up over a year now and im still crazy for him, we still talk all the time on the fone, i live in darwin australia and his in melbourne, i moved here not long after we brock up, and now his telling me he loves me and wants me back. i love it in darwin a have a job i currently live with my sister and her 6 kids but im looking to get my own place, but he keeps sending me hints that he wants me to go back to melbourne, i love him but i dont want to move ive moved once for him already (when we first meet he lived in melbourne vic and i was in nsw i moved to be with him) My proplem is trufully i would love to ask him to move here, he has a job in melbourne and loves it but i also know that the place he works for has stores here too, also all his family is there but he also thinks of my sister as his sister and the kids call him uncle his very close to them all. about 6 months ago he came up for a holiday and for my sisters wedding and he loves it here he was even talking about moving here now suddenly the talking has stoped but hes never been very open, i love him so much and want him back im afraid to ask him to move here coz that would put so much presser on him HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO from melissa