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o im not thinking of a specific girl. just in general.

i have a lot of female friends. but thats the problem. thats the only thing girls seem to recognize about me. im a nice dude, and can talk with someone for hours. maybe thats the problem tho... i dont kno... maybe its the way i act or something... i dont mind being a girls best friend, but i WOULD like to get into a relationship with someone that i like. i know for a fact that im not unattractive, but i guess it has to do with how i act around girls that makes them think of me as a friend. can anyone help me out with this?

martial arts are AWSOME! i cant speak for the ladies since im not one, but i do martial arts for fun, and when i see a female who is into martial arts too i think shes hott. of coarse... this only applies if shes good. not too good tho, i dont like girls beating me up haha

those girls in magazines might be fun to look at, but most are fake. 99% of them have most likely been surgically "enhanced". dont worry about it. guys may look at these women, but we will always love "our girls" more.

heres the story: my cousin has this friend. i am beginning to feel an attraction to her just from talking on the phone and IMing. next week we are meeting up at my cousins house and i eventually plan to kiss her then. heres the plan: i told her i wanted to tell her something. now ive got her interested in what it is cause i told her i cant tell her over the phone and that it would be much more fun in person. now she really wants to know what it is(hopefully she wont lose interest because i know some girls can lose interest in something very quickly) so next week at my cousins house i intend to tease her a little bit and somehow bring up the topic of what i was gonna tell her. when she asks i take her somewhere private and lean in to tell her, and at the last second ill kiss her. (ya i know this sounds like ive payed WAY too much thought into this, but i like to have a plan) heres the questions: 1) do u think this will work? 2) any suggestions of things that i should do while kissing her, or maybe a certain way of kissing her?

tell her that u comepletely understand her feelings, but tell her that u need to know whether she wants this relationship or not. give her all the time she wants to decide, but dont let things go further until shes made up her mind. shell either decide that she wants to be with u or that she doesnt want to be with u. if she does, then i respect her trust in u. if she doesnt, then i think she needs some time without u or any guy so that she can heal mentally. i feel for u though, because its not like its ur fault her ex used her.

i personally cant think of any place better than the lips. however, there is a certain exitement in trying new things so i would suggest doing something that he wouldnt expect. take him by surprise a little. if u tend to hang around the same few "areas", try mixing it up a bit and pick a new "area" and see how he likes it.

haha! im the same way. if i find a girl that i really like that likes me back, ill brag. it probably means that he really likes u and he cant believe that he actually has a girl like you.

there are a LOT of things i did and im afriad i dont know them all. one is that i hung out with a girl that she is enemies with rather than her. another is that i told her friend that its hard for me to talk to her because she never gives me a straight answer(she likes to play). o, and just so nobody gets the wrong idea, i dont like this girl. shes just a friend.

a bunch of my girl/friends are mad at me(particularly one). if i were to type the WHOLE story, then this would be really long so i wont. i just need some things that i can say or do to make her forgive me.

This girl that i like just agreed to go out with me. There are a couple things that im a little concerned about though. 1) her parents are very protective, and they wont let her go out if they are not there or if its a group. 2) right now we are just going out casually, and i want to know how i can become closer to her. (this is especially hard since her parents are gonna be watching my every move) any help would REALLY be appreciated

i know u said u dont like it. but is it something that totally disgusts u or is it just something that u dont really care for. cause i can kinda see how ur b/f might feel about not bein able to kiss you. if u dont mind u should let him. unless its something that u totally hate in which case im not gonna tell u to do somethin u hate.

dont worry about it, i am POSITIVE that he didnt mean to offend u. in fact, he probably didnt mean anything at all by it. us guys dont really think things over until weve already said something stupid

^if this is true, then how come all of the girls that i know like guys that play hard to get?

i like nice girls. the mean ones arent worth my time.