I know where you guys (and girls) are coming from too.
I am a very quiet person (although it was really bad a few years ago it's alot better now) and shy most of the time especially when guys are involved, but I put that down to my personality. I still try and make conversation, even if I don't know what to say.
I haven't been asked out for 5 years and have had 3 boyfriends, but that was baby stuff. I have asked out guys recently but only one seemed interested but stood me up.
I don't have too many friends but I don't mind too much.
I don't even know what to look for when a guy likes me, I am starting to think more and more that they like those girls who wear tight jeans and tight tops, that's not my style so what so I do?
I don't go out with just anyone, I am not picky I just don't go for the bad boys, jerks, players etc or smokers for that matter. I like nice guys who don't feel like they have to be someone they are not.
I am not ugly, I have gotten past that it was just me who thought that but hopefully I will meet someone who appriciates quiet girls.