important...

[SnoGirl42]

This past week on Valentine's day a horrific shooting happened. A young man killed his ex-girlfriend and then killed himself. I knew this young man..he was actually my friend at one point but we lost contact over the past year. He NEVER seemed aggressive at all or angry in any way. He had such a calm personality on the OUTSIDE. I had been grieving his death and taking it pretty hard. Today I found out that he had been abusive and threatening to kill her over the past year...something I just could not believe but now I am forced to.

 

Please, Please, if you are in a situation like this one seek help immediately - even if people don't believe you about how he really is. Don't deny the reality. It is not worth something tragic like this happening...

[musicguy]

That's really sad *hugs you*

[EvaGina]

-hug-

 

often its the people you least expect

the two week mark after breaking up is the most dangerous time in this kind of thing apparently

[Momene]

I felt pretty much like he did when my first wife ditched me but I somehow got over it, remarried and have a great daughter.