amystar Posted February 18, 2007 Share Posted February 18, 2007 I've been with my bf for over 2 years. Just in the last couple of weeks, every time we talk on the phone and we disagree on something, he will say something like: "Don't be stupid, you're such a retard....... He has even started using the f-word with me. I really dont' know where this is coming from all of a sudden. I grew up in a family where we didn't talk to each other in such a manner. My bf has 2 brothers and I noticed he talks to them similarly but never with me until recently. At first I put up with it but then I just sat down with him and told him that he really should not talk to me like that. He said he is just "playing around" and keeps doing it. I would really love some insight on this and if anyone else has experienced it. It hurts my feelings every time he does but he just does not understand that. I would put up with it if it truly was in a "playing around" kind of sense but it isn't in my opinion. He calls me stupid whenever he feels like it. I love him dearly and I know he loves me a lot as well but I truly can't put up with this for the rest of my life. It's very demeaning to me. Do you think I am overreacting? Thanks for reading. ](*,) Quote Link to comment
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.