expiredmomentum Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Ok I havent' had a girlfriend for a lonnggg time...and now I have one. Whenever she's leaning on me or even just holding hands...I get an erection. This could be embarrasing if she notices. Does this happen to everyone? Does it eventually stop doing this? or am I just abnormal? I'm almost 18... Link to comment
Slacker Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Used to happen to me to, eventually you get used to it and it stops happening. Just keep it as discreet as possible..... later in the relationship it can be pretty fun though. Link to comment
AngelEyez Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Hey, I'm sure this happens to every guy at first. I noticed it happen to my boyfriend many a times. We would just be laying there and 'hey look there it goes'. Don't really think of it as embarrassing. I do make fun of my boyfriend when it happens though, but it's only as a joke. I laugh and point, and he says, "What? So what if I'm always horny?" You're not abnormal. I'm sure it will stop in time, but again, no need to be embarrassed. It's almost seems as cute? Hehe. Link to comment
jsx730 Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Don't worry, if she notices it, it could lead to a fun time! Link to comment
equinox Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Yes I can understand that, it used to happen to me, to us all I would say. There is no real way of stopping it but u can keep it descret in certain ways. I used to tuck my penis under my underpants, if you understand me. I works and if it happens it will be very hard (no pun intended here) for her or anyone to see it. Link to comment
Stambler Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Hey man, I'm 46 and married and it still happens to me. It's normal (and yes it's still embarrasing if I'm trying to show my wife that I'm there to cuddle and not always interested in sex!) Link to comment
chrisrad Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 6 years later and it still happens to me. Although she does it to me on purpose sometimes. The other night I was heading out the door and she started telling me all these dirty things she was going to do to me when I got home. Next thing you know, she grabs me down there and says, "Got a little problem?". So great, now I need to wait a minute or two before I head out the door... Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 I like it, personally - it makes me feel that a guy is really excited by me, and that kind of makes me perk up and feel a bit of a femme fatale!! Don't worry about it, if she's like me at that age she may be flustered but flattered, and pleased that you find her *SO* gorgeous that you're always turned on by her. Link to comment
Biffy Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Perfectly normal! If you're getting wood without her actually hugging you (where she would be able to feel it) it is usually possible to hide your erection. Depends on your position - when walking it ain't easy bat sat down it's simple... anthing from a well placed magazine to just putting your hand on your thight to obscure her view. Link to comment
sparkle1 Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 100% normal - i would be disappointed if my bf didn't get erection around me! At the beginning everything is new and exciting - of course it will cause a reaction.... X Link to comment
rikka Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 I agree with the other females who posted... it is a confidence boost. Sometimes I try to make it into a game... see how long he can hold his concentration elsewhere (We both win in the end). Link to comment
candy604 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 it's normal, happens to my bf all the time when he's around me makes me feel wanted hehe Link to comment
expiredmomentum Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 Alright thanks for all that. The only thing is, we're the type of people who aren't going to have sex till marriage. The farthest we'll probably go is just kissing. So knowing that, do you think she'll in any way be offended or think I just like her for her physical attraction? Link to comment
Axel3sRoxas Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 Thats actually quite cute. It still happens to my boyfriend after three years of him being with me. I take it as a compliment. Link to comment
Axel3sRoxas Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 Alright thanks for all that. The only thing is, we're the type of people who aren't going to have sex till marriage. The farthest we'll probably go is just kissing. So knowing that, do you think she'll in any way be offended or think I just like her for her physical attraction? There's plenty of other things you can do, apart from sex, if you get me . . I think she'd understand that its just your bodies natural reaction to someone you find attractive. Link to comment
Deviant_Kate Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 I'm sure once you get used to having her lean on your or hold your hand, it'll stop triggering erections. I don't have a penis, but I know that in the beginning of my relationship, just being near my S.O. was enough to turn me on. I think it's pretty normal. Link to comment
4InchFury Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 Ha, I guess this is an advantage to having a very small penis. When I get an erection, no one notices since my erection is about as big as a normal guys soft penis... haha Link to comment
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