Yvette84 Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Ok. So I was wondering what you guys think when a girl wears push/padded bras??? I mean it's kinda false advertisement don't ya think? I mean imagin meeting this girl who you think has an awesome chest, then you get intimate and later find out it was fake! do you care? I don't wear them because I don't want some guy thinking I have something that I don't. Plus....it's not very fun for touching..it just feels like he's grabbing a pad! and you don't feel a thing! lol, it does make a girls chest look nicer though...so what go you men think or prefer???? Link to comment
rocio Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 My friend used to wear those jelly-filled things that you stick in your bra. Actually, she used to wear two of them at a time. Once she slept over at a guy's house and couldn't find them in the morning. She never saw them again. So try not to do that. Link to comment
Daddy Bear Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 i briefly had a girfriend in 9th grade (no sex) who wore a THICK padded bra. i wasn't disappointed when she told me, just a little embarrassed over her feeling that she needed to 'enhance' herself that way, especially at such a young age. Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 how'd did I know we'd find bendy in here...... he's like a penny falling from the Eiffel Tower at terminal velocity toward this topic!! (just giving you a hard time Bendah!) Link to comment
sixpounder Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 hope this doesnt offend anybody but, women are stereotypical when it comes to mens concern on breast size. sure big boobs are great, but something even more atractive is a girl who's comfortable with who she is Link to comment
Mr Mister1 Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Remember it's what's inside that counts the most. If you feel you need to pad something out or hide something to attract people you need to ask yourself what sort of people you're trying to attract? Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 If you want to be technical bras themselves are false advertising because breasts are not going to look like that without the support of the bra. There are all kinds of tricks that women can use to make their boobs look better than they actually are. If you are a smart man then you will realize that her boobs wont look like that and she is using something to enhance them or make them look better than they actually are. Link to comment
Dako Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 I think it's sad how much effort woman put into worrying about their boobs. I seldom give it a thought. Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 But I love my breasts. I really do. They're sexy and I want everyone to think that......is that so wrong? Link to comment
Hope75 Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 hope this doesnt offend anybody but, women are stereotypical when it comes to mens concern on breast size. sure big boobs are great, but something even more atractive is a girl who's comfortable with who she is Kind of a big generalization, isn't it? It's like saying all men put too much thought into women's concern about penis size. Not everyone fits into that catagory. Link to comment
Dako Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 Ta, I love my opposable thumbs more than my dinky manboobs. Link to comment
Yvette84 Posted October 14, 2006 Author Share Posted October 14, 2006 Ok, not one person has answerd my question!!! lol Link to comment
Dako Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 Okay Yvette, I'll spell it out. A woman with a padded bra is attempting to cater to a dumb social misconception. Imagine a man trying to enlarge his penis, when you just want a guy who has a bigger heart. A padded bra doesn't make a woman a better human. If I met someone with a padded bra, I'd feel sorry for them, not because they had skeeterbites, but because they felt they should wear a gizmo to compensate for a perceived shortfall that matters not at all. Now, where did I leave my codpiece? Link to comment
Daddy Bear Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 Ok, not one person has answerd my question!!! lol your question was "what do men think or prefer", and this was my attempt at an answer: i briefly had a girfriend in 9th grade (no sex) who wore a THICK padded bra. i wasn't disappointed when she told me, just a little embarrassed over her feeling that she needed to 'enhance' herself that way, especially at such a young age. as i've said before on ENA: as long as a woman has a pair of responsive nipples on her chest, i'm good. Link to comment
gnabna Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 Yvette, I found this post most interesting as I went bra shopping for the first time since my surgery. (I had a breast reduction 2 weeks ago- so all those VS 36D and DD need to find their way on to e-bay!) I am not allowed to wear underwire for an entire year- the surgeon actually strongly suggested not wearing them ever! The lovely thing is now at a C cup and as perky as junior high school I do not have to wear underwire!!! YAY! But I digress my point was that I had just ran in to Target to get some meds and thought I could just snatch up a couple of bras minus the underwire for alter- I still have to wear a sports bra 24/7 for 2 more weeks. GIRL you cannot buy a normal bra WITHOUT MAJOR padding and underwire in their unless it was for an A or B cup. I thought my bra shopping woes were over. I had imagined always finding a cute bra with ease now that I am smaller. WRONG!!!! We have an entire market of false advertisement in the form of fake boobies in our local grocery stores! lol Seriously I cannot wait to be completely healed to get myself to Vicotria's Secret. So to answer your question. Yes i think major padding is false advertising- but I have always had large breast. Maybe if I had been flat I would have been all about that padding?! I do like what one of the gentlmen said about a man padding his winkie- girls you know we would think he was a freak show!!! These are thing that make you go hmmmmmm..... Link to comment
Markers Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 I don't really care. Guess it's good if it helps you feel confident or better about yourself. I mean, if you wear makeup you're basically doing the same thing - trying to make yourself look better. Link to comment
Corey Rydell Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 I think it's awesome either way. I'm pretty sure most guys feel the same. Link to comment
now_better Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 So I was wondering what you guys think when a girl wears push/padded bras??? I mean it's kinda false advertisement don't ya think? I mean imagin meeting this girl who you think has an awesome chest, then you get intimate and later find out it was fake! do you care? i honestly wouldn't care. i haven't seen too many in my life, but the ones i've seen are fine. they're great. lovely, silky, fits great in your hand... etc haha anyways, why would someone really care? if it makes her feel better to wear them, go ahead. i'd probably tease her, but we all have our insecurities in life. if it's a real relationship, the physical aspect tends to really not be that important. i don't know any guys stuffing their trousers though lol... Link to comment
HurleyBabe6917 Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 i like the quote "more than a handful is a waste." i think all guys should go by that. what can you do with them if they're bigger than your hand anyways? Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 gnabna, I am so excited for you and glad to hear how well it went. I've seriously considered going that route (even got the ok from the surgeon) and can only imagine how wonderful your back must feel right now. aaaahhh. relief! Is this true that a large portion of the A and B cups are of the padded variety?! That is insane. I've always longed to be able to wear one of those sans-underwire pretty bras. And slinky undershirts without a gdamn bra! (you know, without being uncomfortable after half an hour). Free all breasts of underwires and padding...!! If only. Link to comment
New_Horizons Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 I don't care for boobs at ALL. I am disgusted when women wear padded bras b/c it shows their insecurity and obsession with physical appearance. They are attempting to attract the wrong kind of guy and they don't deserve me. You know what does it for me? A pair of well-pedicured feet Link to comment
gnabna Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 hmmmmm... A male that does not even CARE about boobs, that is the first time I have ever read/seen/heard of that. As far as obsessed with physical appearance- even a pedicure is something we ladies do to treat ourselves, to take care of ourselves and so on... So it seems like a contradiction to say to wear a padded bra is an obsession with physical appearance but pedicures (which is physical appearance maintenance) is fine and dandy in your book. We all have dif opinons of course, dif likes and dislikes. All I am saying is that it is too much of a generalization to say that it is an obsession. I do not think padded bras are right or wrong- my earlier post was very much a joke. I have met many a man that has a foot fetish- absolutely nothing wrong with that- but it is an obsession just as you have claimed that woman wearing padded bras is an obsession. Link to comment
New_Horizons Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 hmmmmm... A male that does not even CARE about boobs, that is the first time I have ever read/seen/heard of that. I know there are a lot of stereotypes in society about what men like or don't like. I'm trying to break this stereotype. It may be the first time you've heard of it but it's way more common than you might think. Oh and you have a point Maybe I was being a little hypocritical there. Feet or boobs though, I don't respect women who take obsessive care of their body (beyond health) , or for that matter a guy who tries to enlarge his penis. Link to comment
Salucious Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 It depends on why a woman wants to have larger breasts. If they want them because they think that'ss what men want, then it is the wrong reason. If it makes THEM feel sexier or more confident, then they should get implants or whatever. Faking it with pads is kinda deceptive. What about push-up bras? Those aren't really deceptive since a lot of women wear them. Personally, if we're talking about physical attraction to a woman, breasts aren't a deal breaker with me. A woman with smaller breasts can be more attractive than one with larger breasts. I'm short so when I see girls my height they generally have average to small breasts. Breast size makes no difference to me if they have a fit body. I think a woman's flat stomach and hips/legs are what turns me on. If I may be shallow for a second, I'd consider: legs, stomach, * * *, lips, eyes on a woman (not necessarily in that order) before I care about her breasts. And goes without saying, but personaliy before everything, especially something as trivial as breasts. Link to comment
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