(Women) Receiving oral sex ..?

[SarahRose]

As women, I think we are far too hard on ourselves.

 

My ex loved to give oral. One of his favorite things to do. He wanted to do it for hours. lol

 

Haven't done it with my current bf. I think he is nervous and doesn't really know what to do. I'm going to ask him for it next time. I'll make sure there is no TP stuck down there.

 

I really believe that men think our genitals are beautiful and they're probably happy they are getting some.

 

If you want it, just ask for it.

[Daddy Bear]

Slightlybent - I appreciate your words... May I ask you a question though? Did you feel the same way when you were younger? (teens, twenties, thirties...)

A lot of guys I have spoken to think it's disgusting and all this and that.. I'm wondering if it's because they're young.

 

Most guys I have been with never even offered reciprocating, but I'm noticing that that's been changing as I've gotten older..

now that i think about it, i have always been that way. the first two girls who took their pants off for me got the treatment and it wasn't about reciprocation. in fact, that was all that happened on both occasions.

 

the guys i grew up with who didn't like the idea of oral on a girl never seemed to change their minds as they got older. of course, that may or may not hold true for the guys you meet.

[rose2summer]

Your ex would give you oral for hours Sarah,

 

Wow, that's amazing, why'd you let him go? lol

[Daddy Bear]

I really believe that men think our genitals are beautiful and they're probably happy they are getting some.

i'll agree totally with the first part of that, but i really think it's the giving aspect that appeals to me so much, at least at this point in my life.

[SarahRose]

Your ex would give you oral for hours Sarah,

 

Wow, that's amazing, why'd you let him go? lol

 

Yeah he would. He wasn't happy until his face was soaked with my juices.

 

Too bad he was an abusive alcoholic.

[SarahRose]

i'll agree totally with the first part of that, but i really think it's the giving aspect that appeals to me so much, at least at this point in my life.

 

The 2nd part was just funning.

 

I have a feeling the older a man gets the more it is about mutual pleasure. Many of the younger guys are mostly about hitting it.

 

I think about the partners I had when I was a teen and early 20s and they were clueless about women's bodies. They thought if they stuck it in the thrusted that was enough.

[n83]

See, there you go. how one person can mess-up someone elses head giving them a complex.

 

Definitely... but Ican't blame him completely, I had body image issues well before he came into my life

 

I think about the partners I had when I was a teen and early 20s and they were clueless about women's bodies. They thought if they stuck it in the thrusted that was enough.

 

Def true sarah rose.. most of the guys I am with now at least have some idea of what to do besides just "hitting" it

[n83]

hmm.. but what if you like it, and you're just not entirely comfortable ...

[Daddy Bear]

just don't give up. if you have a partner who knows what he's doing and knows what to expect down there, the rewards will eventually far outweigh the embarrassment.

[n83]

hahaha like plug his nose?

[Daddy Bear]

if your faint natural scent is really that much of a worry for you, then have him slap it with a little flavored "motion lotion" before he starts. i would suggest cinnamon, because it has a good strong aroma and gets the area all warm and tingly as a nice side effect. he'll think he's eating candy, and you'll be able to relax and enjoy.

[vandgsmom]

Or you could stick a jolly rancher up your junk...

 

A friend of mine (lol...or me) once had a girl stick a peach jolly rancher up there and the game was her only using her lips and tongue to get it out...

 

hee hee

[n83]

actually I guess I'm more worried about the taste (tacos, any1??)

and the shaving..

i'm not good at shaving down there.........

[n83]

A friend of mine (lol...or me) once had a girl stick a peach jolly rancher up there and the game was her only using her lips and tongue to get it out...

 

 

 

LOOOOOOOOOOOL

[vandgsmom]

But I suppose any flavor would do....

[n83]

Could you get an infection from sticking candy up your taco????

[n83]

and my girlfriend just told me that her ex used to say that all women smell like tuna fish down there.

 

What's up with the food analogies?!

[vandgsmom]

Nope. jolly ranchers dissolve and are so full or preservatives, it wouldn't carry any harmful bacteria... likely your SO's tongue has more chance of infecting you than a Green Apple Jolly Rancher...

 

Seriously... you are considering letting someone else stick their mouth and 20/20 vision within striking distance of your junk and you are worried about a piece of candy??

[Ians Mommy]

My fiance gets so mad at me because of oral. I'm an open sexual person but I've never gone down on a guy and I've never had a guy go down on me.

 

He doesn't care that I won't go down on him. He hates it that he can't go down on me. I have my clit piercing and it gets to him that he can't play with it with his tongue. Maybe eventually I'll let him but even if I do, I'm still not going down on him. Ugh, that just grosses me out really bad lmfao.

[n83]

Nono not worried, just curious I thought I remembered a story from a long time ago, I think my friend was using chocolate syrup or something sweet like that, and got a yeast infection from it? or some kind of infection..

[Ians Mommy]

Nono not worried, just curious I thought I remembered a story from a long time ago, I think my friend was using chocolate syrup or something sweet like that, and got a yeast infection from it? or some kind of infection..

 

It's possible to get an infection down there easily though.

 

My sister is.. hm how to put this.. REALLY clean. She douches several times a week, uses some kind of film every couple days, and has a wash for each day in the shower. She got an infection down there from being too clean.

[n83]

My sister is.. hm how to put this.. REALLY clean. She douches several times a week, uses some kind of film every couple days, and has a wash for each day in the shower. She got an infection down there from being too clean.

 

You're not supposed to douche at all.. that can drastically increase your ability to get infections.. or use scented pantyliners or things like that

 

I just wasn't sure if putting sugar in your nether regions can make you get infections

[n83]

hahahaha one of my friends once got a bottle cap stuck up there

yeah that was an interesting trip to planned parenthood, after I finally managed to stop laughing..

[vandgsmom]

Umm.. nope...

 

AND PURELY HYPOTHETICAL ---

 

Since I would know nothing about these things...lol

 

if you use one of those Push Pops (tastes like jolly rancher, but with a handle).. for a little foreplay, it gets the flavor there, could possibly be a funny icebreaker and feel good at the same time, and there is no chance of losing it...lol

 

But like I said... purely hypothetical speculation... not like Mandy and I ever did that... no. not me. I am innocent.

[n83]

How would I politely ask a partner to glide a pushpop around there for a while?? (ponder...)