iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 So what happens now the next time he "drinks too much"? No, I would not forgive it even if they were drunk....if they can't keep commitments when they drink, they should of not gotten so drunk in the first place.....but that's just me. Nope, not just you RK, me too! Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted August 3, 2006 Author Share Posted August 3, 2006 well he cheated while i was in the next room. usually guys don't cheat in front of their gf"s. so this brings up bigger issues to me. he didn't even know her, i know her somewhat. enough to know that she's easy. she took off her clothes in front of him. so here's my next question? he drunk she naked, he's a man does that excuse anything? how many guys would walk away from a naked woman? Link to comment
Dako Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 I have, and it's not that diffcult. Despite world opinion at least a few guys can control themselves. Link to comment
coollady1957 Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 so here's my next question? he drunk she naked, he's a man does that excuse anything? how many guys would walk away from a naked woman? There are quite a few guys that would walk away from a naked woman and wouldn't have a problem admitting so. Link to comment
Süsser Tod Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 ok, my bf got really drunk and cheated on me. he claims he had too much to drink and that he would have never done what he did if he hadn't drank so much. would any of you forgive your bf/gf for cheating? Ehh? No. Seriously, is that even a question? If I knew she cheated on me, I wouldn't even bother wasting my time dumping her. Link to comment
melrich Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 it is easier to forgive than it is to forget. i believe he would not have done this if he was not drinking. I agree. I think you can make this work. Just ensure you are both on the same page and each of you understand you are only allowed to cheat when you are drunk. Then it is absolutely no problem. Link to comment
Oldboy Posted August 3, 2006 Share Posted August 3, 2006 I think you can excuse cheating on the grounds that the cheater is stupid and deceitful. Link to comment
poetsheart Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 No excuse for cheating, excuses are for people who can't handle the truth. Link to comment
nicorette Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 i think cheating can be forgiven, but never excusable. however, i think there is a difference between sex and kissing. of course those are both horrible, but i think sex is much more serious. also, it would probalby be more easily forgiven, if forgiven at all, if it was a one time type of thing, rather than a long drawn-out emotional/physical affair. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 Nope, alcohol would still not excuse cheating. I would long disappear and walk away so quickly that he wouldn't even have time to explain it. Link to comment
Beec Posted August 4, 2006 Share Posted August 4, 2006 how many guys would walk away from a naked woman? Been there, done that. You have bigger issues here than just one incident. Don't look for excuses. Either fix it or forget it. Link to comment
archjx Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 The drinking is part of it but they would have done it eventually. Drunk or sober. Link to comment
Oldboy Posted August 5, 2006 Share Posted August 5, 2006 Drinking? I drink thereforeeee I cheat. Is that a saying by anyone? Link to comment
brokenheart1 Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 there are different reasons for cheating. it's not right, but i would forgive him (NOT FORGET) if you can't forgive him then forgive him anyway and take back your life. don't hold on to the hurt. it'll just hurt you in the end more. i've been on both ends so yup. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Yeah seriously, there is NO excuse! I know my boyfriend would ever cheat on me. Neither of us drink either, so no excuse anyways! He's been drunk once in his life about a year or so ago before me just to see what it was like and he said it was stupid. And obviously he didnt let it get the best of him anyways, if he hadnt even gone past kissing before he met me. He simply doesnt like the taste of alcohol, and even if he did drink, he knows his limit and wouldnt let himslef get drunk. I like the taste of things such as Smirnoff and tequeila, but have never been drunk. And I def dont drink at all since I've been with him. Or go to wild parties. I dont like to drink, because I like to be in control of the situation. And honestly since I've never been drunk, I dont know WHAT I would do in the situation if I got horribly drunk and I got taken advantage of. I dont believe I would ever cheat even being drunk, but its never happened and I dont want to take the risk! Besides, if I did get taken advantage of it would be half my fault anyways for going to a party I knew was going to be "wild" and drank. So thats why, just say no! Link to comment
mrmaximum Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 A whole slew of choices can be made rather than cheating so I agree that it's never a goo recourse. I also don't think the "I was sauced" excuse holds water. I've known people who where three sheets to the wind who STILL got themselves out of compromising positions when they presented themselves. It all depends on what you find important, right? If she was attacked and raped, that is a different story than simply getting drunk and one thing leading to another. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Well the only situation I could see was if you were at a party, and someone slipped something in your drink. Now if you were trashed, and followed somebody up to a room, and they may of taken the initiative, but you went along anyways, that person is to blame Link to comment
littlestar Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Even when someone drinks to much i still think they know subconsciously what they are doing. Link to comment
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