hazeleyed Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Hey Guys, Today I was working at my store when I was approached by this guy. His excuse was to talk to me by asking me for the price of these files. Anyway from there he started talking to me about my background, school, hobbies, he talked about his family and how he has a sister and parents are back home. Whenever my supervisor would come or if someone entered the asile he would automatically leave. Like he knew what he was doing...and we ended up chatting for about an hour and half...not sure exactly. Then he gave me his number and said I should call him and hes like if you want I can visit you tomorrow too. After he left I felt kinda happy to have had a conversation but I am not sure whether I should call him or not. I mean I have gotten out of a bad relationship and I am not sure if I am ready to even pursue a friendship with any guy...what do you guys think? Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Yea, it won't do any bad calling him, just do that say something like "Sup, I'm just tsopping by to say hey, so what's new"?, etc. Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 arg. that's why you should have given him your number! put the ball back in his court. anyways, I guess if you are interested, sure, ONE phone call is fine, but not more than that! Link to comment
hazeleyed Posted July 3, 2006 Author Share Posted July 3, 2006 Well he seemed really interested because he stayed at the store for an hour...and he asked if i was working tomorrow and said I will come again...seriously guys should I even try this? Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 sure, why not? why do you have doubts? Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Yea, why not if you're interest go for it. Guys like girls who know what they want, are direct, and aren't like Cinderella waiting for the prince knocking on their door. If you like him and yet show no interest and keep waiting for him to display it to you, he'll walk away and you'll be left alone. Link to comment
hazeleyed Posted July 3, 2006 Author Share Posted July 3, 2006 Hes 5 years older...done school. I am still in school. He has a transportation job where hes never really around...and I got out of a broken up relationship not to long ago...whut if i get hurt? Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 If you get hurt just move on and try again. It goes by trial and error, just think of you walking down the streets and you tumble down, next thing would be getting up with a smile on your face and keep on walking. Don't overanalyze this too much. Link to comment
hazeleyed Posted July 3, 2006 Author Share Posted July 3, 2006 But...i dunno...lol I am just looking for excuses to hide in the corner. I am a pretty girl and I know that somewhere deep down inside me. I know I am capable of loving someone but I dont want to waste it on anyone ...the pain lasts too long... Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 The more you hide the worst, guy get turn-off by that, they like confident girls. If you dwell on the past relation, he'll notice that and get walk away, give him a chance to get to know you better. Link to comment
hazeleyed Posted July 3, 2006 Author Share Posted July 3, 2006 But am I really ready to spend some time getting to know another guy? I just came out of a bad relationship 4-5 months ago. Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 I agree, don't over analyze at this point. if he calls and asks you out, just focus on having a nice date, not anything more. don't get freaked out, he just said hi, it's not like he asked you to marry him or anything. maybe he doesn't even want a relationship. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Yes, you are ready to hang out with him, if I were you I would for it and not waste any more time thinking about my break-up. If you feel you're not really ready to commit, then tell him you just gonna date. He might just want to date as well too. Link to comment
hazeleyed Posted July 3, 2006 Author Share Posted July 3, 2006 hes 25 ,indian male mentalityis marriage...ugh I wish I could just stay home and not deal with anyone Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 Well the age differences is understandable, you're still in schoola nd obviously not ready to get marriage, not even to commit at this point. Make sure to set your boundaries if anything goes off hand and inform him you just liek the idea of dating, but that your plan isn't to commit yet. Link to comment
hazeleyed Posted July 3, 2006 Author Share Posted July 3, 2006 Yeah..I guess we will see what happens. Thanks guys Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 3, 2006 Share Posted July 3, 2006 You're welcome, hope everything goes well!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
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