What do guys think if a girl is too wet?

[emtay_1]

I have this problem and it's super embaressing. i've had it in this relationship but cant remember having it previously (could it be nerves or would that have reverse effect)?

I always hear about how much foreplay women need but i seem wet straight away and i feel awful, like there's something wrong with me.

Has anyone else suffered from this and how can you stop it?

[Boughtandpaidfor]

I think it's awesome when a girl is really wet. It's totally hot- you really think a guy wants to spend 20 minutes getting a girl wet?

 

Do you want to spend 20 minutes making a guy hard?

 

It's a good thing honey!!!!

[emtay_1]

are you sure it doesn't gross guys out......i thought sloppy wet sex was a turn off? i've been paranoid about it for 3 yrs

[Spugly Fuglet]

I think its down to the guy, some like it some don't I new A girl very much like you and it was fine.

[clubbinguy]

I don't think it would be a turn off for most guys at all. I think most guys would enjoy thinking that he could "get you that way". And you don't need to worry about low lubrication issues. For me, just hearing a girl say she's so wet drives me crazy.

[agent1607307371]

definitely, I mean the wetter you are, the more aroused you are which has got to be an ego trip.

The same goes for guys..

 

And if some guy says anything negative to you, you don't need to be with someone who would talk to you like that anyway..

[Jeremyg77]

My ex was wet everytime right away i loved it

[Tigris]

It shows your bf/gf how turned on you are by them. Just relax and enjoy it while you can because when you get older it seems to get harder to lubricate, especially when menopause symptoms start.

[Daddy Bear]

the wetter the better, and i hope i die drowning.

[mmmending]

big turn on

 

edit: deleted some bits, an act of conscience about kissing and telling

[Jhodas]

the wetter the better, and i hope i die drowning.

 

Quoted for truth!

 

Would you complain if your bf was too hard? Didn't think so.

[Ross_K]

I'd think it's great.

[Lady Luck]

Nothin' wrong with it..

[eriko]

The wetter you are, the more easier sex is. Think about it: It's your own natural lubricant. thereforeeee, Sex is better!

[BellaDonna]

are you sure it doesn't gross guys out......i thought sloppy wet sex was a turn off? i've been paranoid about it for 3 yrs

 

A lot of people have to resort to using artifical lubrication to achieve that same effect. Consider yourself lucky that you can achieve that sensation naturally. I doubt it would be a source of a turn off for any heterosexual male.

 

BellaDonna

[SxcLady]

I do the same thing and yes everyone here is right. It shouldnt matter to the guy your with. All of my ex's have gone crazy knowing they dont have to spend all that time getting me wet, And they were pretty much the same, i didnt need to spend all that time trying to get them hard. So foreplay was more fun, and sex was more fun. With one of my ex's (yes we were tested and everything and we were using 2 other forms of contraceptives) we used to use no condom, and lubricant feels disgusting, id rather use my own natural lubricant!!! And sex feels better when its all natural!!! Its a good thing trust me!

 

(ps... sorry if some letters are missing my keyboard is playing up)

[emtay_1]

thanks for all your advice, i feel so much better.

[Cadence308]

It just shows your aroused without direct stimulation. I don't think there's anything wrong with it and neither do the guys, according to their responses on your thread.

 

I think I am a moderate wetter. It takes some stimulation.

[TiredMan]

Sometimes it can be kinda disgusting if it's way too much but i dont think there is much a woman can do about it.

[Daddy Bear]

i'm trying hard to imagine how much would be too much for me but i just can't do it.

[SxcLady]

LOL@slightlybent.

[TiredMan]

i'm trying hard to imagine how much would be too much for me but i just can't do it.

 

Thats probably what most guys think perhaps because they are conditioned to think that getting "any" is like an honor. Who knows. It's the same mentality of when a guy will go down on a woman when she wants to them too even though she always says no when he wants her to do the same yet they accept it rather than throwing her out on the street.

[BellaDonna]

Originally Posted by slightlybent

i'm trying hard to imagine how much would be too much for me but i just can't do it.

 

Originally Posted by TiredMan

Thats probably what most guys think perhaps because they are conditioned to think that getting "any" is like an honor. Who knows. It's the same mentality of when a guy will go down on a woman when she wants to them too even though she always says no when he wants her to do the same yet they accept it rather than throwing her out on the street.

 

I would assume that men who like women to be "wet" feel that way because it is a biological indication that their sexual partner is turned on. (Just as a woman would be attracted to a hard penis.) I don't think it has anything to do with honor. Sex also feels better with lubrication, which could be another reason why both men and women prefer it. The market for artificial lubricants speaks for itself.

 

I'm not sure how you managed to make the jump from a relatively neutral and informational topic of vaginal secretions to a more negative topic of throwing women out on the street if she won't go down on a guy

 

 

BellaDonna

[SxcLady]

Back to the reason this thread was started... Some men like it some men dont, it depends on the individual man!

[SxcLady]

Nicely said CarnelianButterfly!