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Tigris last won the day on May 29 2007

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  1. ***I realise what I'm about to say may/may not happen in the future but it's worth thinking about.*** Enjoy your friendship with E and when you see someone else who you have feelings for then tell her you're not sure about your sexuality anymore. And explain how you feel when you see this person. That will give E the knowledge she needs to know how a person feels when they're starting to fall in love. It's possible that she'd realise that's how she's been feeling about you all the time. Please don't abandon her now.
  2. If you stop seeing her you'll only cause more trouble for everyone especially E. E's brother is going to hound her all the time saying he was right from the beginning. Her Mother will join in saying what a nice girl she thought you were. Eventually E won't like gays/lesbians because she'll think they all have a hidden agenda. The biggest problem you'll have is your Mother will know that she was right even though she thought it was E and she's never going to let you forget how she helped to save you. Do you really want all this hassle?
  3. Wayfara you could start a conversation off about me telling E that I've 44 years old and finally come out as a lesbian after people thinking I was straight for 30 years. That I didn't want to hurt or disappoint my grandparents who I spent a lot of time with or cause any arguments with my parents. That I'd been married twice and am now making arrangements to marry my fiancee who is Australian and that I'm English. That she will have to come to England because same sex marriages aren't recognised over there. Tell her what you think about my life and then ask her what her opinion is and se
  4. How much martini did you both drink? You need a dvd that's got some romance, seduction and a not too much sex scenes in it plus the martini again. Hopefully that will solve the problem of how she views sex away from her Mother. Do you both like pizza? If you do then I suggest when you're eating it that you start to feed her like lovers do and see if she does it to you. This is like following a romance story and keeping us all on the edge of our seats.
  5. Why didn't you go and sleepover at her place instead? All you had to do was say, 'Can I sleep over at your place instead?' It would've been interesting to see what she said. I told you the last time she pinned you down that something happened to her that day. She had feelings that she wasn't sure about but she liked them. You've got to keep having playful times like that to see what happens. It's obvious there's something happening to you and I don't know how much longer you can stand it? Are you still giving each other a hug and a peck on the cheek before you go? If not then I sugges
  6. I knew E's Mother would have a private talk to you. Don't be surprised if E happens to say, 'My mother talked to you about me didn't she?' She knows her too well.
  7. If she didn't like you at all she wouldn't keep letting you back into her life when things went wrong between the two of you. I'm dying to hear what you have to tell us about her mother and her other siblings. Her Mother is bound to say something about her bringing a girl home. I wonder how much teasing the two of you get this time? Wayfara do you know what's causing the problem with your computer? Have you been doing regular virus scans and updates of programmes? Have you got a Spyware programme? Do you defragment your system regularly? I've had problems before and then I've rememb
  8. I agree with Aquatic about the talk about fighting.
  9. Welcome to enotalone mojito. I agree with you about E being afraid of intimacy. She probably thinks that everyone's like her Mother when they start having sex. She needs to be taught that it's what she wants it to be and not what her Mother says it is.
  10. She might not be interested in girls but she could be interested in ONE GIRL but doesn't know it yet. Thank you everyone for the get well wishes. Sometimes I feel ok during the day and others I don't feel very well at all. My body is struggling to fight off the infection because my immune system doesn't work properly. I'm taking the antibiotics but it could take a few days for them to get into my system properly before they start working properly. I've got to now. I'm feeling weak and sleepy again. I'll keep popping on here to see what's happening. Wayfara you're doing a good job. I'm
  11. How about a bunch of flowers in one hand and a bag of flour in the other that should make her laugh when you say, 'I didn't know which one to bring so I brought you both.' Aquatic, thanks for the get well message. I'm feeling very hot today. It's probably the infection playing tricks on me because it's not that hot outside. I'm keeping away from everyone because I don't want them to catch this of me. I feel like I should be walking around with a black cross on my back and front and ringing a bell saying, 'Unclean, unclean.'
  12. I'm pleased I decided to take a look at your posting after PMing you. I really need to rest. I feel like I'm going to pass out. For those people who do not know yet I'm not well at all. As some of you know I have Fibromyalgia Syndrome (please google it) but on top of that my body is trying to fight a nasty skin infection which reoccurs at least once a year. The doctors don't know what it is and give me antibiotics to help kill it. Unfortunately my immune system doesn't work properly because of the Fibromyalgia and the antibiotics make the immune system worse. I just have to put up with it.
  13. mhm I wonder what your Mother's upto now? It sounds very fishy to me. Maybe she's trying to find E's address? Have you told her you're staying at home yet? I suggest you mention to your Mother that you're going around to your new friend's house to watch anime. If she asks if E's going just say you don't know because last time she was very bored and wasn't interested in making friends. E's cupping your face now...mhm. Well I've done that on many occasions before I've looked into my fiancee's eyes and kissed her passionately. I've never had any friends that have cupped my face. Has any
  14. I think E felt some strange feelings that day, things that she'd never felt before. Something similar happened to me when I was 16. My friend invited me to her 21st party. The other guests there were all family. When they went to take photos she stood behind me and put her hands on my shoulders. I had the strangest feelings run up and down my back. I didn't know what was happening to me. I'd never felt them before and I've never felt them since. It was like electricity running down my back. The strange thing is I was never interested in her. That's the same girl I ended up sharing a double
  15. I wouldn't count on your feelings going away. I tried that and it took me 3 years to get over her. On the other hand there's a saying that goes, 'Absense makes the heart grow fonder.' That's what's happening to my fiancee and I. Maybe E will find that too?
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