annie24 Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Hi all - I have a question for you all! What do you love about your sweetie? (Bf/Gf/husband/wife/partner?) I'll start - I love that my guy is very understanding and that when I'm sick, he'll go out and get me things I need to feel better. What about you all? Link to comment
daredevil Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 - The way she touches me and makes me tremble - The lovley things she does for me fx she made me 3 cards with picturs of us and 3 song texts - Her eyes which ligthens up when we speak etc Link to comment
Aporia Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 well the guy i have in mind i should be forgetting.... but the way he does random stuff like when i was on a date with him he brought me to his house to watch a dvd and he gave me the pictures he developed of the night we were out in a pub togther and in the middle of them he had put in baby pics of him when he was like 2 he was sooo cuuuuute Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 I put this on a similar thread a few days ago. But it bears repeating. Because she is the one person who truly understands me. She was the one person who was there for me when I needed someone or else I would have given up on life. She has a heart that shines and a soul that words can't describe. She is beautiful, inside and out. She puts up with my strange humor, and even finds it amusing. She has patience to deal with me and the issues built up from years of pain and anguish. But why do I love her? I love her for who she is. I love her because I love her. Does there really need to be any other reason? Link to comment
cassandra Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 I love the way he looks at me and makes me smile, When he holds me close and tells me he loves me. When we laugh and muck around.. When he tells me he can't sleep when I'm not with him.. I love everything he does and everything about him.. I love him for him as he loves me for me... Link to comment
Confessoress Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 His wit, confidence, cheekiness, his laugh, his smile, the way when I'm confused he'll point me in the right direction, when we mess around and we tease each other, the way I catch him smiling at sometimes, when we go to sleep and I take a peek and catch him looking at me, when he kicks my * * * when I need motivation (not literally), the way he wants only the best for me, the way he makes me feel that I want to be a better person... Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 lol looking at these i should say something different! but i love my sweeties smell, the way he looks like crap in the morning as much as i do, the way he taps all the time, so annoying but wouldnt change it, the way his hair goes all spikey if he sleeps with it wet, the way he pulls stoopid faces when hes confused and the way he hugs me, god never ever get a better warmer hug than that Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Grrr - I loved that. All of that is what we really love about someone. The little things, the odd things that no one else would notice. Now thats love. Link to comment
piegirl Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 I love the way he thanks me for loving him. The little jokes the way that he always puts me first. The look in eyes when he looks at me. Just to name a few. Link to comment
ginger25 Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Quote: "well the guy i have in mind i should be forgetting...." Yes me too Aporia! This is a bit quirky but ...I loved the way he stood beside me brushing his teeth in the morning, the way he left little surprise notes to say he was thinking of me, the way he stroked my hair when I was falling asleep, and most of all I loved that he was a completely adorable geek and not ashamed to admit it! Link to comment
PRSOV Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 -When she touches me I tingle all over -She is the bestest kisser lol -I love being with her and spending time with her Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 yeah, and when you feel a break up is coming, and you have no way to stop it, all these things how much they make the person are emphasised so much Link to comment
SLMitchell918 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 I love how he rubs my arm until I fall asleep, or do the things I sometimes don't feel like doing. I love it when my day pretty much falls apart and he takes the time to put it back together and make me smile again. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 The sound of her voice as it soothes me when I hurt. The gentle touch of her arm. The way we can think the same thing at almost the same moment. The way she inspires me and brings out the best in me. To list what I love about her would take pages. So I'll just say I love her, all of her. Link to comment
pumpkinjam Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 i love how he lets me know he appreciates the things i do for him. and i love his cooking! Link to comment
flutegirl23 Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 I love how he is obsessed with football, how when i get mad he makes a joke and then i'm mad that i'm not mad, how he still kisses me in the morning after he's seen what i look like when i wake up, when he calls during half time of a football game (he's a coach), his smell that is just perfect, how he thinks he's amazing at mario kart when i win every time, just him. i love him. Link to comment
Cece11 Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 I love the way he tickles me to cheer me up. The way he always puts me first, the way he still worries about me when he knows everywhere I go, the way he wakes me up by kissing my cheek, the way he makes fun of me no matter what I do, the way his shoes stink and when he askes me to smell them he laughs so hard he gets hiccups!...the way he loves for me to take off my makeup and tells me I look beautiful....--just to name very few... -Cece Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 25, 2006 Author Share Posted February 25, 2006 My sweetie and I just broke up. So, I probably don't want to think about this thread anymore. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 *hugs annie Sorry about the breakup. I know it hurts to think of the good times you shared and that every little reminder of love feels like someone is stabbing at your heart. It's horrible. Take the time to feel bad, cry even. I know I was a wreck for days. Well, weeks even. But eventually things get better. Feel free to come to us for comfort. You've been here for so many others, let us help you out for a change. Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 25, 2006 Author Share Posted February 25, 2006 Thanks shy. It's just so upsetting. He told me he was really attracted to me, thought I was wonderful and charming, and he loved that I was sweet and good to him, but he said he felt a "spark" was missing. I'm just heartbroken. Well, I have to see him tomorrow, because I am in the process of moving, and he promised to help my move my big heavy furniture. I am just so sad. But, I guess life goes on. Thanks. I really need support right now. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 I hate that thing about the "spark" being gone. It's like, I can feel the spark, from everything you say, you think things are great.... so what exactly is missing? I'm still trying to figure out what she meant by it, and its been months down the road. Life does go on and you find someone better. It may not seem like it, it may feel like the world is falling apart on you. Take as much time as you need to heal. Before you know it, you'll be back on your feet again. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted February 25, 2006 Share Posted February 25, 2006 Annie24, I hope you feel better soon. Breakups are hard but we are all here for you since you have been here for us. ShySoul, I also hate it when a guy tells me that the "spark" is gone. Sometimes, I wonder why when the "spark" is gone, why people dont try to work to get the spark back. In order to have a meaningful relationship, people have to put work and effort into it. To just say the spark is gone, kind of makes me think people just give up when the headiness and excitement of the relationship is gone. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Or maybe its that they themselves can't place what it is that is wrong and instead of wanting to face it, just find it easier to make some magic label for it and give up on it. Either way, people should try to work things out. But for many they take the easy way out and run from things. Leaving the other person hurt and confused. Annie, hope you are doing well. Take some time to do something fun. I don't watch the show, but I know you like it so maybe there is something from Sex and the City that can help your mood. Have a marathon watchng some episodes and us it to put a smile on your face. Link to comment
Sheyda Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Annie24 - I am very sorry to hear you've broken up with your partner. I hope that you heal quickly and feel better soon. *Hugs* I wish you all the best. I also agree with renaissance and Shy; people should try to work things out instead of realising something is gone and immediately calling it quits. Link to comment
nocmonster Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 I love her strength and resolve, even in the most difficult of circumstances. She's very loving and understanding, and has a streak of power in her that means she'll always have the backbone to stand tall and be ready to deal with anything life throws at her. Link to comment
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