Is my fiance a closeted psychopath?

[itsallgrand]

I'm glad you came back to read and post.

Thank you for sharing more about your situation.

 

How did you feel about the suggestion of calling a women's center? I'd love to hear how that goes, if you are thinking of giving that a shot.

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Are you concerned about him going through your cell phone? It gives me hope that you are finding a way to post, and you are seeking out outside perspectives.

 

Like fio said, it's first steps. Just keep taking a step at a time. Rooting for you.

[Hollyj]

Please contact an abuse hotline and see what options they offer you.

[boltnrun]

BTW, none of us is saying it will be "easy". Oftentimes doing the right thing is difficult.

[anonymousflo]

No friends or family. Not an exaggeration. My phone only has 4 contacts. No options for me.

[boltnrun]

Did you give up all of your friends to focus on him? Was that at his request?

 

You have no mother? No father? No siblings at all? Not one cousin?

[Wiseman2]

So? Start putting contacts for domestic violence places and help centers in your phone. Maybe he'll blow your head off maybe he'll blow you kisses. Those are your "options".

My phone only has 4 contacts.