ManyDates Posted February 2, 2019 Author Share Posted February 2, 2019 You tore down a personal boundary and she walked through the door you left open for her when you didn't end things with her with a solid ending verbally and then zero contact along with blocking and deleting. Ask yourself why you did that so you learn from it and don't let yourself down like that again. It's time now to forgive yourself for letting yourself down so that you can shelve these ongoing thoughts of her and you and this "thing" you had ongoing with her. Yes this was indeed very stupid of me, trust me I get it now. I looked back over a year on with rose covered glasses only seeing the fun we had and not all the bad - yes to not ending it properly Link to comment
boltnrun Posted February 2, 2019 Share Posted February 2, 2019 Yes this was indeed very stupid of me, trust me I get it now. I looked back over a year on with rose covered glasses only seeing the fun we had and not all the bad - yes to not ending it properly So let's say she contacts you again and wants to come over for a romp in bed. Would you be able to resist? Link to comment
ManyDates Posted February 2, 2019 Author Share Posted February 2, 2019 So let's say she contacts you again and wants to come over for a romp in bed. Would you be able to resist? Oh hell no! And its been 6 months so I doubt she ever would, but if she does she'll be hearing what I think of her and I'll be telling her to stay out of my life forever. Link to comment
katrina1980 Posted February 2, 2019 Share Posted February 2, 2019 Oh hell no! And its been 6 months so I doubt she ever would, but if she does she'll be hearing what I think of her and I'll be telling her to stay out of my life forever. Why become so emotional about it? I mean stay out of your life forever? That sends her the message she still gets to you, you're still emotional about her, which will flatter her. The opposite of love is not hate or anger, it's indifference. Either just ignore her or if she contacts you wanting to hook up, a brief two word "no thanks" will suffice, but ignoring is probably better. Please don't get all emotional telling her what you think of her and stay out of your life forever. If you want her out of your life forever, that's your job, by either ignoring, or blocking. Stop giving her so much power over you (and your emotions). Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 3, 2019 Share Posted February 3, 2019 You should be long over this and be dating again, not stalking and pondering.So a year and a half ago I had a 3 or 4 month long summer fling with a girl Link to comment
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