Out of the blue breakup

[Wiseman2]

Why don't you take the initiative to resolve whatever lose ends there are regarding property or finances? That's up to you to do. No do not hope he comes back or chase him. It's hurting yourself. Most likely he moved on months ago. Give him written notice about any of his stuff in your house or money he owes. Get an attorney if he is avoiding collecting his stuff or paying anything he owes you.

Yes there are. But isn't it weird that he doesn't take any initiative for this?

[Sunn]

Because I didn't want the break up in the first place. And it confuses me, if he's so sure about what he wants, why doesn't he cut the lines then?

[boltnrun]

Why don't you cut the lines? Why does he have to be the one to do it?

 

It's uncomfortable for him to be in communication with you because your desire to get back together is obvious. He doesn't want that, hence the discomfort.

[Sunn]

Oh no, he doesn't have any idea. I'm sure. Its been 6 months already. I don't cut the lines because I didn't want to break up. I think it should be his responsibility, isn't it?