Ex sent me this

[Smw23xx]

So I’ve posted on here a few times and I just want some advice about this text my ex sent me. We haven’t talked in a while but a little back ground, we didn’t break up because of cheating or anything. It was really petty and I made all the classic break up mistakes. But here is what she said:

 

I have heard everything you have said. I have read it all. And i understand. I forgive you. I really do. But that is it. The reason i have ignored you is because i don’t have anything to say. I accept your apology and i hope you the best. I am not in a place right now where we can sit down and talk or anything but maybe one day. For now just know i care about you and i really loved being with you. Thank you for trying and showing your effort.

 

I then told her that this has all been very hard and she says:

It’s hard for me to say. Trust me. I’m just not where you want me to be yet.

 

So if anyone of you received this would you think it’s something that can be fixed with time or just close the door?

[lenovo]

Just close the door mate, unfollow and block, she don't want to discuss it!

[Smw23xx]

Neither do I bc it’s old now but I would like to be in her life. Your right though.

[sputnik123]

hi Smw,

 

I'm sure it hurts alot to be reading that from her, but you need to now try and close this chapter.

 

Be thankful that you received that though, it's a hell of alot more than some people get!

 

Chin up and stay strong.

 

We are all here if you want to talk.

[Hollyj]

She is done.

 

Do not reach out to her again. No friends. Nothing.

 

Block and move on.

[Liraele]

Close the door. You don't have to lock it, necessarily... but you do have to close it and give yourself a chance to heal.

[DanZee]

Instead of concentrating on your girlfriend's response you should be on what you did to her. Looking back at your January post, you just don't accept that apologizing for what you did is not enough. The relationship is over. You're just torturing yourself by contacting her and trying to force her to come back. You're harassing her. Move on.

[Hollyj]

She has told you multiple times to leave her alone. You need to start respecting people's boundaries. You seem to do whatever you want to do. This is called harassment.

[reinventmyself]

I think we've all been there. Receiving a message and desperately attempting to decode into meaning something that it doesn't.

But from this side, and not emotionally involved that was a wrap up text.

Meaning, she accepts your apology and there is nothing more say.

[Wiseman2]

Why did you break up? She's already told you to stop trying to get together. However it's odd she didn't block you yet.

01-07-2018:This is a message that my ex sent to me.

 

"I got the message. And i understand that. I just feel like I’m being backed into a corner. Let me come back on my own time. You cannot push me. You cannot force me"

All that I did was break up with her out of frustration

[11moreweeks]

I don't think she has any intention of getting to where you want her to be. I think she only said "yet" to alleviate the impact because she probably does care about you, just as I care about any of my friends who I have no romantic interest.

[MissCanuck]

Close the door, OP.

 

She doesn't have the courage to come right out and tell you she's not coming back, but the message is clear.