Starshine Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 Okay I was at a mall today with a friend, we were at the food court/cafe area. And I saw this guy I think I found interesting (lets call him cute guy). But the problem is he was with this other friend of his (friend guy). And while I was busy looking at cute guy (and thinking of how to start a conversation). Cute guy was buying some stuff at one of the restaurants. The friend-guy came up and took the seat by the table right next to ours, before he did I swear he made it obvious that there was some intention to him sitting there. Cute guy came up eventually while me and my friend ate our lunch and contemplated on how to start a conversation with cute guy. (I'm shy when it comes to conversations) What I didn't realize was that while I stole glances at cute guy, the friend was looking my way... I finally did catch the friends gaze and realized that he seemed interested but I wanted to talk to cute guy not the friend-guy. So after lots of planning and plotting with my friend. I decided to stay firm on my resolve with mission cute guy And I just took a breath, and got up with the intention of complimenting cute guys hair and getting a phone number as I left saying that I was busy and would love to talk to him later. Now the actual situation turned out quite different. I went up to the table where the guys sat. I said Hi, Cute guy was busy munching over his lunch like (really unaware) and the friend spoke up. "How may I help you?" (Like he was smiling and all) . I momentarily lost focus, turned to friend and then back to cute guy sticking to my resolve I said to cute guy "I think your hair style is really nice!" And then the tragedy followed. Please just don't laugh .Cute guy was not answering because he didn't know English. He looked English but...(Damn!) And I only came to know when friend guy translated for Cute guy who nodded and continued with his food again. Cute guy I should call him food ogre guy now! And the last thing I remember is the friend guy laughing and saying "That's a nice compliment Nice hair!" That's the last I remember because my plans were foiled, and I was stuck between inattention from the one I wanted and attention from the one I didn't. I thought it better to forget about the phone number and I smiled and graciously left with my friend. Did I do wrong? And where exactly did I go wrong? Should I have talked to friend guy instead when I had an indication that he seemed interested from the moment he took seat next to our table? But I didn't want to talk to him? And should I have taken the phone number anyways but whose and how? Or I shouldn't have? OMG! I don't understand what I did wrong? Link to comment
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