Vulpix Posted January 4, 2018 Share Posted January 4, 2018 Me and my ex broke up dec 2016, we were together for 6 years and he was emotionally abusive. When we broke up our friend told me i was doing the right thing and should respect myself, she asked me if i wanted her to not speak to him again, I ofcourse told her I couldn’t ask that of her. Last year now she broke up with her boyfriend from 8 years and Became lonely, started to rely on alcohol to feel happy, so she spent her nights going out drinking with my ex, He asked her out and she told me she said no for a few reasons, for the way he treated me and the way he’d now act around me Were two very big ones. But a week later she got drunk before the night out and encouraged him to stay the night, they had sex. She claimed she felt so disgusted she wanted to give up drinking, but then went to his birthday do, a few days later and got drunk with him and cuddled up to him. Its after all this, she told me she couldnt keep it in anymore, i told her i think she has a drinking problem and needs to stop, in order to respect herself, She said she agreed but didnt change a thing. I told her it actually upset me shes still allowing him to flirt and try to get into her knickers, and shes acting like shes never heard of flirting before. I told her i feel like seeing him is risking our friendship, and shes told me she understood but to back off her life I told know what else to do, i dont want to walk away Link to comment
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