Girlnumber1 Posted January 3, 2018 Share Posted January 3, 2018 My ex boyfriend of 1.5 years dumped me in October 1. I believe we were just getting over the honeymoon phase where everything was pretty great. We’d met each other’s families, taken a vacation together, talked about having kids, and talked about what would happen when I went to medical school. We had a small argument which led to us taking a break for 1 week. He said he wanted to stay together after that, but we had a hard time getting back into the grove of things, which led to the breakup. He gave a lot of different excuses as to why we couldn’t be together or work things out. He first said he wanted to see other people. Then, he said that nothing made him happy anymore and he didn’t have time for a relationship. Thirdly, he said that he only wanted his family in his life and he couldn’t put anyone above his family. Lastly, he said that he didn’t want to wake up one day in the future after he had kid and realize that he wasn’t in love with me. He just wants to be friends. I tried to accept that we can only be friends and we hung out a couple of times. He made out with me and told me that he couldn’t see himself with anyone else. The next day he told me that all that talk was just his hormones. I decided not to talk to him for a month on November 12 to give myself time to get over him. He tried to contact me a couple of times during that month and then deleted me off of social media. I ended December 15. I asked him why he deleted me and he said that he thought that I hated him and didn’t want anything to do with him. We’ve now been texting back and forth and have hung out once since then. I haven’t brought up the relationship yet. I’ve tried to date other men, but he’s the only man that I want. I only want to get back with him. Is there any way/chance that I could get back with him? Help! Link to comment
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