SusieQ93 Posted August 22, 2017 Share Posted August 22, 2017 I have a close friend. We'll call her Megan. She has been dating this guy for almost 10 months. Things moved pretty quickly- sex on the first date, moved in after 2 months of knowing him, etc. She likes the guy but he has certain quirks about himself that bother her, i.e. how he spends money and isn't financially responsible, a slight temper, gets depressed easily. The guy is in love with her and wants to get married (actually bought a ring after they moved in together. She hasn't seen it yet though). Megan is not here for it. She barely likes him however she can't find it in herself to leave him, though she wants to. A few weeks ago Megan set the kitchen in their apartment on fire and caused them to be evicted. They are now leaving on separate places but talk everyday and do things on the weekends. Before they left their apartment Megan noticed that her bf was texting a lot more. When he went to sleep, ahe went through his phone and found out that he had been texting his ex and asking her if he could move in with her. She shot him down because she was currently living with another guy. Megan was heated. She took screenshots and sent them to herself as evidence. Yesterday her bf calls her and tells her that his ex (the same girl) had called him and said that he could leave Megan and that they could get a place together. He acted hurt and offended and said things like why would I leave my girl for You? Etc. Megan was unphased. She believed that him yelling her about the call is like his way of "kind of" telling the truth to get it off of his conscious. Megan asked him questions like why would she call and say that and when was the last time he talked to her and he lied and said back in February (which was a lie). She didn't call him on his lies or fake upsetness. She just behaved nonchalantly. She asked me what should she do? She doesn't want an argument but she has all of the proof in the world plus she's doesn't even want to be with him. When he threatens to break up with her during arguments, she begs him to stay. She has had an "out" for months. She just doesn't take them for the sake of his feelings. What should she do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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