cococly Posted August 17, 2017 Share Posted August 17, 2017 Hello memebers, I was with my exgf for 3.5 years. I had been on NC with my ex for 10 days, then she messaged me to notify me that she has got a new job. We then had a brief text conversation. I also invited her to meet up for dinner, and she said she would confirm the meetup after her 2-week trip. I thought i was making progress in getting her back, as she initiated contact with me again. A few days later, she used a new whatsapp profile picture, and she looked very good, and it was also taken at her new boyfriend's place. I know I am moving on. I had been concentrating on preparing well-paid professional job, but after the interview, I suddenly lost my “distraction”, and I wanted to check on how's my exgf is doing. I have been thinking of my exgf less and less, and I am also dating other girls and with a new girlfriend. But seeing her new profile photo made my recovery went 10 steps backwards. I started to miss her. I know I would have no problem in knowing girls of highly qualities (she was slightly diabolical; she fell for the new guy within a week of knowing hin) , but I am still missing this exgf. How should I adjust my mindset? Seems like everything else that I do to “move on” are just distractions, and once these distractions have ended, I would fall back into thinking of her. It had been 3 months since the breakup. Link to comment
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