EmD5024 Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years and he has recently moved down to live with me. Recently, we seem to be drifting apart and I hate it. I want to be with him and want to make it work but I feel like he doesn't want the same. I have a big day in work on Monday, probably the biggest day of my career and so wanted to spend this weekend with my boyfriend to chill out and take my mind off it, which we did have planned. However, he then turned round last minute and said that he was going to go home this weekend as it is his grandads birthday on Monday. He knew that it was his grandads birthday well before making plans with me and had not mentioned that he was going to want to see him. I explained to my boyfriend that I was upset about this as i am so nervous about Monday and wanted him round this weekend. My boyfriend then agreed that he would come home on Sunday night so that he could be there for me as he knew how nervous I was for work. However, I received a text from him before saying that he was going to be staying at home tonight as well so I won't see him until I come home from work tomorrow. I am really angry and upset that he would do this, knowing how I feel about the whole situation in the first place. I don't know how to handle the situation and part of me thinks maybe I am overreacting? Can someone please shed some light on this and any advice as to how to handle the situation would be much appreciated, thank you. Link to comment
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