moomin1 Posted July 10, 2017 Share Posted July 10, 2017 We were fighting, i said some mean stuff, he snapped, said he didn't want to be with me anymore, but then didn't want me to leave after. these are some very confusing mixed signals. we have been on the rocks for a few months after a breakdown of trust and have therefor been arguing quite a bit. the longer the arguments have been persistent, the less patience he has had for my emotional reactions (crying). he is an avoidant personality type. i am an anxious personality type. the main thing that is bugging me, is that during this fight where he stated that he doesn't want to be with me anymore, that he can't do this fighting anymore. is then why would he go on to comforting me and hugging me for hours, while we watched a bloody film. . . and when i said something nice to him at about 4 hours later he then said "i still cant be in this relationship anymore" i got upset, tried to leave. and he didn't want me to because "its the middle of the night" (i live five minutes away) I left at 2.am. its been a 6 days, he still hasn't contacted me. what is going on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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