lilsunfl0wer Posted July 6, 2017 Share Posted July 6, 2017 It's been several months since my ex and I broke up and we haven't had any contact ever since. He basically removed me from all his social media, changed his phone #, etc. Before we even broke up, he already had a new girlfriend on the side. The same girl he's with now, he left her first because he was still married at the time to another woman. Long story short, yesterday was the first time I seen him since April 10th in a convience store getting gas for my car to go to work. I didn't think he would see me because he did but wait, he didn't speak to me at all. (I could care less that he did) About 20 minutes into my work shift, his new girlfriend messages me off his account first saying all kind of bad things about herself to me but I didn't fall for it. She also sent me a message claiming "Is my man texting you because I get his notifications to my phone when someone messages him" I told her she needs to take it up with him and she snapped at me, going off on me, cursing me out, telling me the two are engaged with a baby on the way, etc. When I first found out about this my mom and three co-workers messed with her on social media to see who she was except two of my co workers messages her and tell her about herself how she ruined my relationship with him, etc. Why confront me now when it happened in April? Why wait so long, is what I'm not understanding. Basically she was on BOTH accounts messaging me.. She also gave me her number? Would any of you give an ex your number? She also told me herself she was on his account sending me the messages but denies blocking me herself??? Remind you, my ex himself removed me as a friend only. He didn't block me at all because I didn't add him back nor did I message him. We were in our own lanes. My thing is that she's insecure or she's afraid of him leaving her again but it's on her because she went back to him a second time. If she has my ex, why is she concerned about me now? My ex told her he didn't want nothing to do with me but she messages me AND tries to add me as a friend on Facebook knowing she's blocked me off his page. (Btw, this girl caused him to end relationships with his family, and friends. It's gotten bad from what I hear from others) What is your opinion on this situation? Obviously she wanted to shoved it down my throat she's engaged but I know she was only saying that because her profile still says "In a Relationship". Btw I'm 20, she's 31, and my ex is 25. Link to comment
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