porenn Posted June 22, 2017 Share Posted June 22, 2017 So there's this guy I used to talk to. Long story short it did not end well. The last thing he told me was "we do not need to speak" (which I thought was kinda petty). So I see him twice a week at the gym. When I first started seeing him about a year after things ended he made a point of waving to me and making weird hand gestures. I look at him like he is a crazy person because of how things were left. I don't tell people things like "we don't need to speak" unless they're stalking me. It was unnecessarily mean. It also makes me feel tense if I have to interact with him. Honestly I could have moved to a different gym but I don't like the idea of anyone chasing me from a place I was otherwise comfortable. So basically I ignore him. He still waves but the hand gestures have stopped. I'm still kinda pissed off about the last thing he said to me. I really want to let it go but I haven't managed to do it yet. Its not for lack of trying. It was unnecessarily unkind and now he acts like it never happened. I've been restraining myself from calling him out about it hoping that eventually I would forget or that it wouldn't sting as much. That's not working. Should I confront him or just wait some more. I mean there's no way i could still be holding a grudge in ten years right? Link to comment
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