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She dumped me, and she updates her relationship status with another guy that day

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So, when my ex broke up with me, she vaguely just said "things have not been the same anymore, and I have been going through a lot recently". She deleted me on facebook, and wouldn't really communicate with me at all.

 

2 weeks later, I'm on her facebook profile and I look at some of the guys liking her photos. I look at his profile, and see his relationship status. He is in a relationship with my ex, since the same exact day she broke it off with me, according to his facebook status.

 

Now, I kept that to myself for a while. Couple of months go by, they break up. We start talking again. After a little argument, I lose my **** and tell her about how I know that she dumped me for this guy.

 

First thing she says "no I didn't leave you for x "

 

To which I respond with the facebook evidence, and how she was in a relationship with him since the same exact date she broke it off with me.

 

She then just says "Woah that's my personal life, and he cheated on me so I don't like talking about it"

 

After I tell her that I would fully forgive her for everything, and how I apologised for snooping around her facebook, she just says "I can't do this anymore. I can't trust you. Sorry"

 

So we said goodbye to eachother.

 

Now my question: Is there a possibility that I was wrong about the fact that she dumped me for this other fella?

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lostlove76 Proficient

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Ugh, she sounds awful. First she dumps you for someone else (and yes, it seems that's what happened), and then she says SHE can't trust YOU? She's the one who can't be trusted. Cheaters always turn it back around on you for snooping, because it takes the attention off what they did wrong. She doesn't deserve you.

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Hollyj Grand Master

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So, when my ex broke up with me, she vaguely just said "things have not been the same anymore, and I have been going through a lot recently". She deleted me on facebook, and wouldn't really communicate with me at all.

 

2 weeks later, I'm on her facebook profile and I look at some of the guys liking her photos. I look at his profile, and see his relationship status. He is in a relationship with my ex, since the same exact day she broke it off with me, according to his facebook status.

 

Now, I kept that to myself for a while. Couple of months go by, they break up. We start talking again. After a little argument, I lose my **** and tell her about how I know that she dumped me for this guy.

 

First thing she says "no I didn't leave you for x "

 

To which I respond with the facebook evidence, and how she was in a relationship with him since the same exact date she broke it off with me.

 

She then just says "Woah that's my personal life, and he cheated on me so I don't like talking about it"

 

After I tell her that I would fully forgive her for everything, and how I apologised for snooping around her facebook, she just says "I can't do this anymore. I can't trust you. Sorry"

 

So we said goodbye to eachother.

 

Now my question: Is there a possibility that I was wrong about the fact that she dumped me for this other fella?

 

You know that she was cheating on you. I do not understand why you started talking to her again! Dude, where is your self respect????

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seanryder Collaborator

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After I tell her that I would fully forgive her for everything, and how I apologised for snooping around her facebook

 

Are you nuts?.....you may as well tell her to do it to you again....that's the message she will get from this. If you tolerate this then you shall have more and more of it. Would you ever trust her again? Forgiving someone is the easy part, it's the forgetting that's a problem......and this is something you should NOT forget.

 

You dodged a bullet. She places no value on loyalty. Find a girl who does......don't settle for this garbage.

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Clio Mentor

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She left you for an another guy, when confronted she tried to gaslight you / lie about it and when she failed, she tried to turn the tables on you when SHE is the one that lied and cannot be trusted. She can't trust you not to uncover her lies. And now you are questioning evidence that you saw with your own eyes? What is wrong with you? The girl is a liar and selfish beyond words! Use your brain and stay away or you will get used and abused and from this point on you will have only yourself to blame. You now know her true colors.

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Wiseman2 Grand Master

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Sorry this happened. Agree with your theory that she 'overlapped', specifically with the vague departure line. And the strange coincidence of 'in a relationship' the same day. Naturally she will deny this to the bitter end, they always do.

 

Go no contact and delete and block her from all messaging and social media. You dodged a bullet because she'll 'overlap' on him one day as well.

He is in a relationship with my ex, since the same exact day she broke it off with me, according to his facebook status.
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