Cb1 Posted April 26, 2017 Share Posted April 26, 2017 My exboyfriend and i dated for nearly 7 months. We shared a deep connection but he had come out from a divorce just over a year when we started dating( 21 years married) . I nearly left him within 5 months as i felt he wasnt there the way he should be.He was very insecure as his wife cheated on him.We managed to stay together but no real progress. I didnt contact him for 4 days and neither did he. When i tried to get in touch he told me this thing is not working and refused to speak to me ever since. I contacted him via text 2 months later to say i am sorry if i hurt him and he responded with a x. He agreed to speak on the phone but i called twice and he never picked up. Two months later i saw him on the street and texted him. He responded to say he has been seeing the pictures i posted on facebook from my holiday and its sad he doesnt have the whole vibe but i have cheered him up enormously. He agreed to meet me for a coffee 2 weeks later when he would return from visiting his family. He didnt do it. One week ago i sent him a happy birthday picture and he replied thank you. What a difference a year makes....i dont understand what is going on in his mind and whether he is politely saying i should leave him alone. He doesnt make contact but when i do he is leading me on. Any advice? Link to comment
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