EmmaLouAnn Posted March 15, 2017 Share Posted March 15, 2017 Me and my ex where together for three years almost in that time I grew close to his family and adored and loved them like my own. His mother was so sweet and his dad was everything I wanted my own to be. I seen them every week and they were always so I've we would gonot for meals together talk every night and just in general have so much fun together. Me and my ex split up almost a year ago now and we've remained friends kind of and we talk everyday and meet up every week and spend time together. His dad fell sick while we were together and we spent most nights in hospital next to his dad. When we split he would keep me in the loop about his dad he would go back and forth to hospital until he got seriously ill a few days ago my ex told me he was really bad and I told him I'll be there for him. After a tearful phone call my ex told me he feels like he has No one to talk too and told him it's not true he has me. Last night I got a text message from my ex telling me his dad had hours to live, I got upset on the phone and told him that I would come down to be there for him and he said that he would love that.. later on he told me not too as there was too many people around his dad and it's not going to be long... He kept me in the know telling me how he was through the night I text him telling him I was going to sleep as I had work in the morning but If anything changed to ring me and I'd answer anyways 4:36 in the morning I woke up to a text from my ex saying he was going to ring me.. he sent that at 3:36 and I'm guessing he didn't ring because I didn't answer. So I stayed up text him back to find out what was wrong only to be told this morning that his dad had passed away at 1am and he was at peace.. I never thought I'd get upset but I've been so upset and all I can think of is if I feel like this how does my ex and his mum feel... I've text him back sending my love and condolences and haven't heard anything back I don't want to intrude on such a tender time but I'm not sure what to do next... Any advice I was so close to his family and I feel like I've lost some part of my family too.. please don't be rude me and my ex get on really well and it's all still raw this.. I just need helpful advice. Link to comment
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