Fun Boater 1 Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 Active on this site again after a few years. This forum is a great resource and it has helped me put things in perspective at times. I've been through a few "dumpings", some easier than others, and I've been the "dumper" a few times myself. Just wanted to share a few simple doctrines to remember if you are experiencing being broken up with. They hold true under ANY circumstances. Not a guide to "get he/her back" - just a few key things I believe are important to realize in order to get your head straight so you can 1. Move on 2. Heal 3. Or even consider getting back together. Detachment is the key! 1. Realize that what was, WAS, but isn't anymore. 2. If someone can walk away from you, you let them walk! Your destiny and future is never connected to someone who can leave you - Never! 3. Share your feelings with the "dumper" - all of them. Hold nothing back and tell them exactly how you feel. "Empty the tank" of your feelings. THEN WALK AWAY and STAY AWAY. Keep these three items in mind if you are being dumped. They will help you focus on moving forward. In my opinion anyway! Link to comment
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