Esummers Posted February 26, 2017 Share Posted February 26, 2017 My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and we've been having the same problem tho entire time; He's very shady when it comes to his phone AND social media. I don't have Facebook but he does. When I did have it I tried to go on his page to add him and saw inappropriate comments between him and some other girls. This was only a couple weeks into dating. I asked him if he would add me on Facebook and he didn't want to. He said he doesn't add a lot of people we know. Then I decided to confront him about the comments I saw (flirty comments on girls pictures and responses to girls that were flirting with him). He got defensive and said they were just friends and that he "compliments" all of his female friends. I called bs but dropped it for some reason. After that his page was completely private. Time went on and I noticed he would always keep his phone in his pocket and wouldn't leave it in the car if he got out and I stayed in. Basically he has it with him 24/7. I finally had enough a couple months ago and told him how I felt about him having his social media completely private from me and being shady when it comes to how he handles his phone when I'm around. He said that I should just trust him and that he not doing anything wrong. I felt stupid and still kinda do for giving him a chance and letting it go but it's driving me crazy. He does have a set schedule in his life where there's not much time to mess around with other women. He texts me back immediately all the time and he answers me whenever I call. But I can't help but feel that he's entertaining other women over text and social media since he's so secretive about all of it. I think about breaking up with him but then I feel like I'll regret it since I didn't have proof that he is talking to other women but at the same time I don't have proof that he's not. I don't know what to do. Link to comment
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