Slim Dog Posted January 26, 2017 Share Posted January 26, 2017 Hey ENA. I'll try to keep this short so not putting too much detail in here. I'm in college, and a good friend gave me this girl's number around November so I could go "pick up" (don't worry, nothing illegal in my area and it's occasional) from her. After the first time or two, she seemed really into me. Whenever I'd text her a question, our conversations would usually end up lasting for a couple hours up until we meet up. She seems introverted and somewhat exclusive... as in she seems very selective about her friends and who she likes as a person. She seems genuinely interested in me. I'd try to end with a handshake/slip 'n' grip, but she'd usually go for a hug instead. So a couple weeks ago, she casually mentioned something about her boyfriend... like "oh yeah my boyfriend does XXXXX". Fast forward to last week. By then, we're kind of comfortable with each other, she's flirtatiously confessed her fondness towards me. I was going over to her place, she offered to make it a quick trade for my convenience, but on my way over, she asked if I could help her out with some wiring up by her roof. Being the fit and capable 5'10" and 175lb young guy I am (I guess I'm not a slim dog anymore like I was in high school when I made the acct. ), of course I offered to help. So she invited me inside, I took a little bit, but I finally got them to work (SOMEHOW, lol. She was really happy about it). We just hung out and watched TV for a bit, but it was getting late (close to 1:00 am) so I saw myself out. IMMEDIATELY as I got out of my chair, I just felt really weird. Like I should have made a move or should have responded more flirtatiously and outgoing towards her (smoking definitely kills all the "game" you have). I am 100% not the guy that wants to mess with another girl that's in a relationship, as cute as I think she is. Ever since that night I've just had this strange feeling... I texted her after saying I had fun hanging out, but no response. Long story short: This girl seems interested in me, the way she texts, her body language, her voice, she gets kind of reserved and mildly anxious around me as well. She says she has a boyfriend (mentioned once), but has invited me over late at night to help her with things around the house. I'm so confused. Any insight? Right now, I'm just gonna keep it strictly friends, because I'm not going to intrude on someone else's relationship. I wasn't necessarily interested in her at first... I thought she was a cutie, but over time her acting like that has just kinda started an attraction.. I'm doing the right thing... right Link to comment
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