i need help! should i keep her or let her go

[midfid]

so basically here's the story, the other night after i left my girlfriend of 6 months house she went for a drive with 3 other guys. The guys were all drunk and smoking. She wasnt at all. She tried calling me while she was in the car so i could try and help get her out. Once she got into the car she immiedeatly wanted out and they wouldnt let her out. One of the guys tried to get with her but she pushed him away. Then another guy did and she tried to push him away but he "in a nut shell" kept molesting her. She finally gave in and hooked up with the guy. She later told me that she did it out of fear and a little bit of temptation. Right afterward she kept on trying to contact me but my phone was turned off. I have to give her points for honesty, right afterwards she told me the whole truth and left nothing out. Im only 16 so its not like im going to marry this girl but i do like her alot. She was obviously very upset, she was crying the whole time she was on the phone with me. However because she cheated on me i dont know if i should continue trusting her or not. She told me it was just as much her fault for cheating on me as it was the other guys. Half od my friends say i should dump her and the other half say i should give her another chance. I've never had someone cheat on me before so i dont know what to do. Help me please

[CarterJonas]

It's difficult to know what exactly went on here!

 

I would think that she could have these guys on a charge of assault (maybe with intimidation?). They really do not have a right to do what they did, even if she voluntarily went in the car with the three of them. I take that she would have no reason to lie to you?

 

You seem to be quite wise in that you say you are only 16 so probably won't end up marrying her. Only you can decide whether this relationship is worth pursuing or whether you would be better off looking elsewhere.

 

goodluck

[HelpmePLz]

i think that is mean

[ghozt]

i think you should give her a second chance only if the guys were *relly drunk,and she wasnt and did it out of fear*

[DN]

Give her the benefit of any doubt and give her a second chance. But she should be tested for STDs, and if you have had any sort of sex with her since, then so should you.

[Sn0man]

If you feel that you can get past this and aren't going to be holding a grudge against her for the remainder of the relationship, then give her another chance. If, on the other hand, you don't feel you will be able to trust her ever again or forgive her cheating then there isn't any point in continuing the relationship because it will only go downhill from here.

[mavrick]

if u think that she is really telling the truth (all of the above and has hid nothing), then u might give her a chance ... i dont know but... if she volunteered for getting in the car,... its out of temptation--and she is wrong there.

[hatepr]

if i were u, i had dump her -- cuz this TEMPTATION thing shows that she wanted to be involved in somesort of a thing, thats why she entered the car i suppose -- to have fun.