hatepr
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i need help! should i keep her or let her go
hatepr replied to midfid's topic in Trust and Relationships
if i were u, i had dump her -- cuz this TEMPTATION thing shows that she wanted to be involved in somesort of a thing, thats why she entered the car i suppose -- to have fun. -
i m going thru this thing from the past few months of her not "missing me". as we dont meet much, we used to but I had to move due to my studies... so i dont know why she doesnt miss me that much, when I miss her like crazy. also forgot to mention -- we had troubles in our relationship due to her making a new fd(boy), whom she spends a lot of time with me and i thought she is neglecting me so we had a fight.
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Sorry, forgot to mention but we are in a LDR. thats whats making me feel bad, i right now am in her city and this is still continuing -- she has met me only once in the past 3 weeks - and the same thing is happening...
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Me and my gf are not going on pretty well. She has kinda changed.... earlier she used to call me up etc and we used to talk for long and missed each other like hell. but now, she is like -- if we talk, good, if not... no big deal. i dont know, it kinds of sets my mood off to think that she doesnt feel the same way or not miss me that much as i do or ..i dont think she even misses me a little (assumed by me cuz of her talks). I think she might just be oozing out.. what should i do in such a case... give her more space .. i shouldnt call etc stuff?? we had had some relationship issues in the near past, but that dont count now,.. what counts is that how to....??? i dont know.. just make her miss me (not like somecrazy)... but how to know the reason for the change etc?? please help.
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Hi! it feels great 2 b a member of enotalone....
hatepr replied to ash_mat's topic in Friendship and Friends
Congratulations for joining this wonderful forum. I am sure you will find this as a great place where you will be helped by complete strangers who will share their own experience, and advices with you for the better of you. Good luck. -
i dont want to break up with her -- i dont know why but i dont want to go thru the pain and that too for such a great girl ( which i knew last year ).
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should i tell to her all about this on the phone or inperson
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i just love that girl. i have been away for 1yr 3 months and we were together (in person together) for only 2 months. she was a nice girl till i had known her back then -- but my fds say that her characted has sort of changed and she will stop anywhre to talk to any guy.
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thats what is the thing. she (my gf) says that she and the guy are having a very good feeling of fdship as he told everything about his gf (current) which he has broken up with (yesterday) and is still ok and is watching ftv etc stuff and telling to her on the phone-- i m watching this - wanna see etc stuff.
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how to tease her and gain her attention if thats whats gonna make our relationship interesting when i am 400 miles away?? how cud i possibly tease her???
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she keeps on saying that she and her new fd have a very macho relationship of a fd -- like when they talk this boy tells i am watching some adult channel etc and then she says change that stupid, idiot etc stuff .. she told this to me .. they have a lot of exchanging stuffs -- i think she trusts him more than she trusts me.
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how do i go and talk to her about this--- i mean we have been together for a year and a half... i moved away only because of us ( to get a better education ) and it was our decision.
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also i have confronted her 3 times bout this matter.. .she says that ( as i am living in another city for my education entrance examination preparation ) i should b more focussing on that and let we live our lives to the fullest etc
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i dont know, she has also asked me whether she talks alot bout that guy-- i said no cuz when i was furious 2 months ago she hid many things about him and her.
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pls reply. i m becoming very desperate.