Why does my guy friend behave like this and how should I deal with it?

[tudou14]

A guy I ve been friends with for a couple of months had been giving mixed signals that I can t read at all, such as:

> Wanting to spend time with me alone

> Being very flirty and touchy when we are alone, and makes dirty jokes

> Tries to keep the conversation going when we text by asking random questions

 

But then, he:

> Is on his phone so much when we spend time together

> Doesn't say much and make conversation well when we re together

> Sometimes when we text he cuts me off and suddenly says "Anyway I m gonna sleep, goodnightttt!"

What do you think is up with this and how should I deal with it? Thanks!

[DancingFool]

He'd like to get into your panties but has the social skills of an awkward donkey.

 

So what do you want out of this?

[j.man]

Ask him. Could be shy or inexperienced, could be uninterested but enjoys the attention, could be gay, or maybe you're bad at giving signals. Why ask us when you can easily get an answer straight from the source? Two months is a lot of patience for someone looking for FWBs.

[Man with Dog]

He'd like to get into your panties but has the social skills of an awkward donkey.

 

So what do you want out of this?

 

Not guaranteed BUT ...

 

If you let him in your p@nties he might become more confident and stop behaving like an awkward donkey. He might need a bit of coaching, though.

[Wiseman2]

He wants booty call but not dating or a relationship.

Wanting to spend time with me alone. Being very flirty and touchy when we are alone, and makes dirty jokes. Tries to keep the conversation going when we text by asking random questions.What do you think is up with this and how should I deal with it?

[Billie28]

It means he is immature, looking for no strings fun, that's it!

[Man with Dog]

He wants booty call but not dating or a relationship.

 

Maybe not. He could be socially awkward and inexperienced?

 

How old is he? Has he any relationship history?

[Wiseman2]

Or all of the above...socially awkward, inexperienced AND just wants a hook up.

[HeartGoesOn]

He's not a "friend" in the true sense of the word, if he's looking for a booty call.

[Man with Dog]

He's not a "friend" in the true sense of the word, if he's looking for a booty call.

 

... or maybe a relationship?

[catfeeder]

Figuring out someone else isn't useful unless you're clear about what you want.

 

What do you want this relationship to be?