ForevahAlone Posted July 27, 2015 Author Share Posted July 27, 2015 And in what context does he strike up a conversation with you, are you colleagues or school mates or something? We work together. He just always makes it a point to come and say hi to me. Several times he's come up to me, out of nowhere and randomly complimented me. Link to comment
ForevahAlone Posted July 27, 2015 Author Share Posted July 27, 2015 Are you upset he's not asking you out? What do you want from him. I kind of want him to. I don't know if he could though. Lol. I'm shy and he makes me look extroverted. Link to comment
Helpexpressme Posted July 27, 2015 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Well you should keep talking to him and see what happens. Guys like girls who smile alot, flirt and have a twinkle in their eye. Don't be moody and grumpy that will get you nowhere lol Link to comment
j.man Posted July 27, 2015 Share Posted July 27, 2015 We work together. He just always makes it a point to come and say hi to me. Several times he's come up to me, out of nowhere and randomly complimented me.Well now I can see why he might just be keeping it to workplace chat. It sounds like he might know better than to treat the office as a dating pond and, while he may be interested otherwise, is keeping things platonic and (relatively) professional. How exactly does he compliment you? Link to comment
saluk Posted July 27, 2015 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Quickest way to find out for sure... ask him. Link to comment
Andrina Posted July 27, 2015 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Since now you say he's a co-worker, it's best not to date him. Most new relationships don't work out, and then you have the awkward situation of seeing each other 5 days a week after the breakup. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted July 27, 2015 Share Posted July 27, 2015 Don't know how that happened. Lol. I'm 22. Now that you know, you should update it or ask a mod to help you. Why don't you just ask the guy out? Edit: I see he's a coworker. Don't ask him out. Link to comment
ForevahAlone Posted July 27, 2015 Author Share Posted July 27, 2015 Now that you know, you should update it or ask a mod to help you. Why don't you just ask the guy out? Edit: I see he's a coworker. Don't ask him out. Lol. Don't worry. That was never even a possibility. Link to comment
ForevahAlone Posted July 28, 2015 Author Share Posted July 28, 2015 Well now I can see why he might just be keeping it to workplace chat. It sounds like he might know better than to treat the office as a dating pond and, while he may be interested otherwise, is keeping things platonic and (relatively) professional. How exactly does he compliment you? He always compliments things (non physical) that are important to me. Work ethic, etc. Link to comment
ForevahAlone Posted July 28, 2015 Author Share Posted July 28, 2015 You know what? I'm starting to wonder why I always, seemingly, misinterpret simple kindness for romantic interest. It seems like an issue I have to address. Men are seldom interested in me. I don't know. Link to comment
notalady Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Here's a rule of thumb, until they actually take action (ie ask you out), it doesn't matter if their interest is romantic or simply kindness and you should pay no attention to it. Link to comment
ForevahAlone Posted July 30, 2015 Author Share Posted July 30, 2015 Here's a rule of thumb, until they actually take action (ie ask you out), it doesn't matter if their interest is romantic or simply kindness and you should pay no attention to it. Makes total sense. Thanks. ☺ Link to comment
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