Moontiger Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Ok, so some of you know I have been trying tinder to get back out in the dating world. Been I about 4 or 5 dates so far, none have been spectacular but it's been nice to get back out there. Well guess who's profile just popped up? My ex. We only dated for four month but I really liked him and was very sad that he was not in a place where he wanted a serious relationship. So ENA, please stop me from swiping him right! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
BigKK Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Ok, so some of you know I have been trying tinder to get back out in the dating world. Been I about 4 or 5 dates so far, none have been spectacular but it's been nice to get back out there. Well guess who's profile just popped up? My ex. We only dated for four month but I really liked him and was very sad that he was not in a place where he wanted a serious relationship. So ENA, please stop me from swiping him right! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk It's even a question? Of course I wouldn't give it much merit, although I know it stings a little. If it makes you feel better it's easier for girls to get dates than it is guys Link to comment
lady00 Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Oh no! Can you hide his profile so you never see it? I know nothing about Tinder other that that Katy Perry recently joked about being really "deep" on it. Heh. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted April 29, 2014 Author Share Posted April 29, 2014 Basically if I swipe his picture left I won't see it again. If I swipe it right and he swipes my picture right tinder would let us communicate. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
Moontiger Posted April 29, 2014 Author Share Posted April 29, 2014 Lol, BIgKK, I know. This is so silly. I've never bee. This silly over a guy before. If this was anyone I've dated it would not be a question. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
jjkk Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Hurry, hurry, swipe left, don't think about it, just do it! Link to comment
lady00 Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 No more posting until it's to tell us you swiped left!! Link to comment
Moontiger Posted April 29, 2014 Author Share Posted April 29, 2014 Lady00, lol! I am banned from ENA until I make the healthy choice, huh? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
greta96 Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 We only dated for four month but I really liked him and was very sad that he was not in a place where he wanted a serious relationship. You do know that when people say this, what they usually mean is "I don't want a serious relationship with *you*". Nothing to ponder, swipe left!!!! Link to comment
Moontiger Posted April 29, 2014 Author Share Posted April 29, 2014 It's done . He was swiped to the left. This has set me back a bit in terms of healing. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
Batya33 Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Definitely left and I'm sorry you had to see him on there. Link to comment
lady00 Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Good for you. I can relate to taking a while to heal. I am embarrassed to say how long it took me to get over one guy I dared for 2 months. I am not telling. Link to comment
greta96 Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 It's done . He was swiped to the left. This has set me back a bit in terms of healing. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Good girl! But yeah, it does suck to see how eager they are to meet fresh meat :s Link to comment
Zuri Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Yay! I'm glad you swiped left. "To the left, to the left" Link to comment
Batya33 Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 At least you saw him on the site because you were on the site too rather than hearing about it or "stalking". Link to comment
Kaytie Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Oh I was posting when you were Moontiger. Head up - this says nothing about you or your worth. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted April 29, 2014 Author Share Posted April 29, 2014 What's funny is I'm 90% sure I've been on there longer than he has! I do wonder what he will think when he sees my picture. I know it doesn't matter but I just have to wonder. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
Fudgie Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 I'm glad you swiped left. You made a good choice. And honestly, it's the next girl's loss. He wasn't ready for a relationship so I don't think he should be on there dating, but that's just me! He's someone else's problem now! I'm sorry about what happened but you're doing great and I can't wait to hear about you finding a great guy in the future. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted April 29, 2014 Author Share Posted April 29, 2014 Thank you Fudgie! I'm still having fantasies about a year or two down the road meeting M again and everything working out. I know that wont happen but is just where I am right now . Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Glad you made the healthy choice. So what if he didn't want a relationship with you. So what!? He's not a god! Link to comment
quirky Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 OMG quirky thanks so much for this link! Haven't heard this song in ages, made me feel soo much better I know, it always makes me feel great too this song. And Beyonce is so sassy and a girl's girl makes me want to get hotter and do my hair and pick nice clothes! Link to comment
Moontiger Posted April 29, 2014 Author Share Posted April 29, 2014 Sorry guys, I know this is stupid...but I feel really sad right now. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
Fudgie Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 It is okay to feel sad, it's not stupid. You guys dated and he really disappointed you. I think it's better to let yourself feel these feelings fully and let yourself move on over time, instead of shoving them down. And as I said, if he's dating (on Tinder) while he doesn't want a relationship, then that's pretty lousy of him. He's wasting people's time. I know you are sad over him but I know in the future, when you are healed, you will be thankful that you didn't spend more time with him. Link to comment
quirky Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Oh no! Tell us..why? What are you thinking? Link to comment
Moontiger Posted April 29, 2014 Author Share Posted April 29, 2014 We just clicked really well. I've never understood what people meant about an "instant connection" until I meet M. We had similar interests, were attracted to each other, always laughing. In other words everything fit really well except for him not wanting more. I guess I'm sad because 1) if I had ask more question I would have figured out earlier he was right for me and could have placed him in the friend zone 2) because I don't think I feel that instant something again. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment
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