surething Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 I made out with this girl i've been dating last night. We've been dating for about 3 or 4 weeks. This was the first real time we've made out. Last week we kind of did, but it was more of a really long kiss goonight. Anyway, things were heating up last night. Here's what i'm worried about. I kind of felt her up. But i didn't over-do it. I touched her butt, and her boobs. Did i go too far, considering it was the first time? I didn't go under her clothes or anything. She was on top of me, and me on top of her, and so on... so i figured it was okay. I don't know if she liked it or not. I know i should have asked her first but i didn't. In an email today she said she had a great time and that she trusts me not to take advantage of her. So i guess its fine, is it? Link to comment
Inconceivable Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 she sounds fine with it Link to comment
anon123 Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 If she said its fine why worry?! I personally would have held off the grabbing/touching the first makeout, but If the situation called for it.... Link to comment
tiger_lilies Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 Sounds hot to me! I don't think she has a problem with it. If she did, I'm sure she would've done something to stop you. Link to comment
Meow18 Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 I agree with the others. It doesn't seem like she minded too much. I think that if she didn't like you doing it, she would have moved your hand away or told you not to as it was happening. Have a talk with her. Let her know that you respect her and if you ever do anything to make her uncomfortable or that she doesn't want you to do, then she shouldn't be afraid to let you know. This way she will know you aren't wanting to take advantage of her. Link to comment
Mun Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 It sounds like she is ok with it and she wants to see you again. So keep at it Link to comment
surething Posted December 11, 2004 Author Share Posted December 11, 2004 Thanks everyone. I asked her if i crossed the line. She said no, and she liked it a lot. And she would have stopped me if she had a problem. Link to comment
horsegal Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 she sounds fine with it. i personally don't like guys who go for feel on the first makeout session. Link to comment
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