Did i go too far?

[surething]

I made out with this girl i've been dating last night. We've been dating for about 3 or 4 weeks. This was the first real time we've made out. Last week we kind of did, but it was more of a really long kiss goonight. Anyway, things were heating up last night. Here's what i'm worried about. I kind of felt her up. But i didn't over-do it. I touched her butt, and her boobs. Did i go too far, considering it was the first time? I didn't go under her clothes or anything. She was on top of me, and me on top of her, and so on... so i figured it was okay. I don't know if she liked it or not. I know i should have asked her first but i didn't. In an email today she said she had a great time and that she trusts me not to take advantage of her. So i guess its fine, is it?

[Inconceivable]

she sounds fine with it

[anon123]

If she said its fine why worry?! I personally would have held off the grabbing/touching the first makeout, but If the situation called for it....

[tiger_lilies]

Sounds hot to me! I don't think she has a problem with it. If she did, I'm sure she would've done something to stop you.

[Meow18]

I agree with the others. It doesn't seem like she minded too much.

 

I think that if she didn't like you doing it, she would have moved your hand away or told you not to as it was happening.

 

Have a talk with her. Let her know that you respect her and if you ever do anything to make her uncomfortable or that she doesn't want you to do, then she shouldn't be afraid to let you know. This way she will know you aren't wanting to take advantage of her.

[Mun]

It sounds like she is ok with it and she wants to see you again. So keep at it

[surething]

Thanks everyone. I asked her if i crossed the line. She said no, and she liked it a lot. And she would have stopped me if she had a problem.

[horsegal]

she sounds fine with it. i personally don't like guys who go for feel on the first makeout session.