just walk slowly up to her, and look deep into her eyes. gently put your lips to hers, for a few seconds. put one of your hands on her waist, and the other on the back of her neck, but don't pull in. if she pulls back, let her. if she seems horrified, say 'i'm sorry. i can wait until u are ready for it.", or something like that. she seems a lot like me, and this is what i want a guy to do. i hope this helps.