He doesn't love me

[audrey28]

It hurts to say it, but the guy I have been seeing on and off for a year and a half does not love me.

 

I know I should have known better, but I had hoped. I know it couldn't work bec it has been so one way. I gave so much without anything in return. I am truly heartbroken and losing my self-confidence

[Twidom]

Sweetie it happens That's life. Things will get better you'll see.

[SooSad33]

Yes, it is sad to have 'tried' for so long and nothing but a loss.. am sorry.

 

Heartbreak can take a toll on you. Much pains & emotions running throughout. It will take some time...

 

It is time now though, to work on YOU. Time to take care of you and all those emotions. Let the tears flow.. go pound a pillow.. write..write.. and talk. Family/friends etc.

Once things start calming down and you come to 'accept' the loss.. you'll start to calm down and can work on healing from this. You'll need to work on your self confidence again, yes. But it can be done.

 

You may even want to look into some counselling for some help.. won't hurt. Sometimes we need that help.

 

One day at a time is all.... you're not alone.

[ExcitedtoSleep]

It hurts to say it, but the guy I have been seeing on and off for a year and a half does not love me.

 

I know I should have known better, but I had hoped. I know it couldn't work bec it has been so one way. I gave so much without anything in return. I am truly heartbroken and losing my self-confidence

 

I hate that it took a year and a half for him to figure out, either, that he does not love you or to let you know that he never loved you. I feel for you.

 

I truly hope that you find someone who deserves you soon. Just do not let your current emotions lead you down the same path as before. Let yourself recover fully before you start trying to find another.

[SpottiOtti]

I'm sorry you're hurting Audrey. >>> Good for you, for being able to see the truth through the pain and face it head-on.

[shelty24]

Sorry your hurting but you should learn from this experience. When its on/off its not gonna work. When your giving a lot and hes taking-its not working.

 

You need to set your standards far higher and in future have more self respect